lurker question

Ok so I have read quite a few lurker post ... now what exactly do you guys mean?

I know I have a lurker because she is a frienemy that is a big snoop and have heard through the grape vine that others know some details about my wedding that I have only disclosed here ... now what to you guys mean? are the lurkers you talk about frienemies? co-workers? or just random internet people? (if its random people, then that is seriously creepy!!)

p.s. I appologize for not have tons of pics and details of my wedding cuz of my lurker but i wish I could share more and be a bigger part of this community of LOVELY ladies!

I don't have a lurker (at least I don't think so) but don't apoligize for not having many pics...I don't have any

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Posted by Vasiliki

Ok so I have read quite a few lurker post ... now what exactly do you guys mean?

I know I have a lurker because she is a frienemy that is a big snoop and have heard through the grape vine that others know some details about my wedding that I have only disclosed here ... now what to you guys mean? are the lurkers you talk about frienemies? co-workers? or just random internet people? (if its random people, then that is seriously creepy!!)

p.s. I appologize for not have tons of pics and details of my wedding cuz of my lurker but i wish I could share more and be a bigger part of this community of LOVELY ladies!

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Dont you worry. Share what you want, dont share what yall dont want to share.

A lurker is ANYONE (USUALLY mom, frined, co-worker, siblings, inlaws) who want to read about you and see what you are up to without you knowing.

Lets say like you have a coworker (or in your case a frienemy) who knows you use the same screen for every website. Or has heard, in passing 'oh well on the wedding website I belong to..'. They can come on, look for you and click on everything you have posted. They have a acess to the site but dont have to join.

So they will like know what things you are havinf for the wedding. Even if you post 'oh, I like those _____ and I was thinking of having MY_____ just a diffrent color.'

Lurkers. And yes, it can be any random internet people.

But I dont think its really scary. Its a website that anyone can like really look at. Dont worry too much. If you are worried FM client services and change your screen name if its its one you use everywhere.

But as they saying goes 'it is what it is'.

You can send a message to client services and change your username and maybe change your picture then they wont know its you!! !

also i have heard future brides calling themselves 'lurkers' because they have yet to begin posting on blogs.
In the end...a lurker is a person who reads the blogs but doesnt post.