MACYS Trunk Show

So I had my first dressing trying experience.

I have tosay that i am tall so I feel like everything looked good

here is the thing

I felt pressured to put down a deposit even though I couldnt decide between two dresses.

Is there any way that I can cancel a deposit. Is it true that ANY contract has a writer recision for 3 business days?

It was 200 dollars and I know it really isnt a lot of money but still. I am such an a$$ I should have just said no. But it is so hard when they are tending to you for two hours and helping so much.

It was a contractual agreement.

Please Help!

only with in the Bridal Dept. which may be ok but I still feel like not even using them.

I am not kidding on how many times I told the woman that I wasnt sure about the dress and that I didnt care about the discount.

What I should have said was NO

but it really isnt that easy.

I want to congratulate you first...you got to 1000!!!
Yeah!!!!!

I think that i will call them tomorrow but the woman was so helpful. I feel like such an idiot that I gave my money. I have to remember that people do say no to them....I would not have been the first.

I am so sad that I teared up a bit and I am not an emotional person in that sense.

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

only with in the Bridal Dept. which may be ok but I still feel like not even using them.

I am not kidding on how many times I told the woman that I wasnt sure about the dress and that I didnt care about the discount.

What I should have said was NO

but it really isnt that easy.

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Take me with you next time. I will show you how to do it

Your spending enough money on you wedding you don't need to be any of it away.

Thanks Steph!

Its ridiculous I am an adult I know how to say no.

think that i will call them tomorrow but the woman was so helpful (this is what you said in a post)

(this is what I am saying) that is her job. She is there to help you not make you feel bad for helping you so much.

Thank you about the 1000 posting. You was one of my biggest supporters

yes you are absolutely right!

I will call tomorrow and see what I can do about the situation.

I swear on anything that she said 'Put the money down, sleep on it and you can decide by Monday'

I was so intimidated but now I am so sad that you know what it wasnt even my money it was my moms. Thats why I feel more bad. Like I should have put the money down becuse I was the one that couldnt and didnt say no.

My mom is like me very easy going and non confrontational. I am so mad at myself. i cant even blame the lady at Macys.

I need to learn how to say no

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

I swear on anything that she said 'Put the money down, sleep on it and you can decide by Monday'

I was so intimidated but now I am so sad that you know what it wasnt even my money it was my moms. Thats why I feel more bad. Like I should have put the money down becuse I was the one that couldnt and didnt say no.

My mom is like me very easy going and non confrontational. I am so mad at myself. i cant even blame the lady at Macys.

I need to learn how to say no

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Yes you do! but don't beat yourself up. It will be all right.

THanks Steph.

I just need to be honest with myself so that I dont take the aggression out on a person who was just doing her job though.

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

I swear on anything that she said 'Put the money down, sleep on it and you can decide by Monday'

I was so intimidated but now I am so sad that you know what it wasnt even my money it was my moms. Thats why I feel more bad. Like I should have put the money down becuse I was the one that couldnt and didnt say no.

My mom is like me very easy going and non confrontational. I am so mad at myself. i cant even blame the lady at Macys.

I need to learn how to say no

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The lady at Macys was applying big pressure on you so you coudln't say no. It happens to many many many people. It's not your fault. They are trained to make sales!

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Posted by Autumn08

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

I swear on anything that she said 'Put the money down, sleep on it and you can decide by Monday'

I was so intimidated but now I am so sad that you know what it wasnt even my money it was my moms. Thats why I feel more bad. Like I should have put the money down becuse I was the one that couldnt and didnt say no.

My mom is like me very easy going and non confrontational. I am so mad at myself. i cant even blame the lady at Macys.

I need to learn how to say no

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The lady at Macys was applying big pressure on you so you coudln't say no. It happens to many many many people. It's not your fault. They are trained to make sales!

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I agree they are trained money first customers second.

LOL so true! I need to get some of those characters that you all use...the guy rolling on the floor laughing

Do you think that it will be easy to get the money back

Anyone know if it is a legal binding contract that can be cancelled?

Well I will be more informed on dress contracts now also!!!!!

Wow I never knew that I would learn so much just from planning a wedding.

I always wanted to become a wedding planner but honestly it is to much work!