MAID OF....

I have a Maid of Honor, a Matron of Honor who are both two of my closest friend and the two friends I have known the longest.

One of my bridesmaids though has been filling in on a lot of the 'of Honor' duties (Matron of Honor has a newborn so I can understand her not being available to help with everything; Maid of Honor doesn't exactly has the same taste as mine).

I have already explained to this bridesmaid how helpful she has been and how I originally didn't give her the Maid of Honor title bcuz of the time I have known the other two girls. She completely understands but I feel that she has been so helpful she should receive some kind of recognition. Should I give my special bridesmaid another title? Can anyone suggest something?

Thanks!!!

i think you should, just because she helps you out and just there for you more than other people...
in my case one of my brides maids wants to be be recognized just becuase we were friends since i came to this country, she never has time to do anything with me (which i understand perfectly)...sometimes she just dont feel like it..i made her a JR maid of honor...i dunno.i feel like she doesnt deserve it...hehe..

that's great that she's been so helpful! depending on how many girls you have, i would be wary of giving her a title though... i would be a little hurt if i was the 'other bridesmaid' who didn't have any special title. i think i would just let her know how much all of her help is appreciated, and what a great friend she is. you can even give her an extra special gift, but i would personally do all of this privately.

you know guys...i dont understand why they all get mad and upset that you chose that person to be your maid of honor or gave different title to that person, i mean if i asked you to be a bridesmaid you should take it as an honor....i mean i though of you to be in my bridal party like some other special people who are there...if that person is not happy..they dont have to do it...i can find someone else who can appreciate that and be happy...

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Posted by kimiequa

that's great that she's been so helpful! depending on how many girls you have, i would be wary of giving her a title though... i would be a little hurt if i was the 'other bridesmaid' who didn't have any special title. i think i would just let her know how much all of her help is appreciated, and what a great friend she is. you can even give her an extra special gift, but i would personally do all of this privately.

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i think ur right. i already have a maid and matron of honor and all of a sudden changing her title might offend the other bridesmaids. I like the idea of giving her an extra special gift.