MAILMAN PROBLEM

This past summer when I went away for a week, I had my mail held at the postoffice. When I came back my carrier informed me that he threw out my junk mail, well, I was mildly annoyed but did not say a word. Then I never received my new credit card, a package from QVC-ironically my address does not exist according to the mailman. Also, my mailman will not take outgoing mail, according to him, the mailbox accross the street is sufficient enough. Well, I called and complained about the situation, not because I wanted to but my credit card was lost , and my packages where not coming. Today my FH asked mailman for the mail and he refused to give it to us as well as tried to pick a fight with him. Me and FH are the most easygoing people in the world, we are appalled. Any suggestions? Do I just grin and bear it or make a formal complaint? HELP! It is so fustrating especially when the invitations go out, what is to say that he does not try to throw those out, etc? We used to have another mailcarrier for years and she was so nice!Ugh! I am so fustrated!

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I would ABSOLUTLY make a complaint.. I think there is a 'headquarters ' type post office where you can file this complaint...He is breaking a federal law by throwing out your mail and not giving it to you....I would complain to anyone who will listen if i were you! Good luck, and luckily for you you have enough time before your invites go out for this to be fixed.

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That is ridiculous !! Report him at once, he should not get away with this
The nerve !!! That is harrasment and tampering with your mail !!! Definitley against the law !!!!

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I would DEFINATELY file a formal complaint & include everything includeing him deciding to throw out your 'junk mail'!!!!!!

Jodi

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How dare he?
Who is he to decide what mail you don't want, what is junk mail or whatever?!?!?
Report his a$$!!!!!!!!
I would have done it already!

Talk about going postal!

PS-He may decide he don't like your invite responses and throw them out too!

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Try to get the sun of a gun ON TAPE saying something that would help you, cuz its gonna be your word against his when it comes down to it, and the type of person he is, he will DENY IT till he turns blue in the face !

REPORT HIM ASAP ! and keep us posted !!

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I will try to talk to my friend later today. She is a postal worker in Nassau. She will tell me exactly what you should do...I'll keep you posted...

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I look forward to her reply to...whenever we have a package to be delivered he never checks to see if we are home...he just sticks a note in the apt complex mailbox and says sorry we missed you...this has happened on three seperate occasions when I was home all day!

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Thanks everyone for all your support. I am still avoiding the mailman like the plague and so is FH. We still do not know what else to do since we reported him already after the junk mail inncident.I am curious as what else to do , since we are afraid to put out the mail to be picked up , etc.

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thats a shame youare afraid to leave out your mail !!!
where and how did you report him?

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Wow! That takes nerve!
He sounds psycho and needs to find another job ASAP! Something preferably not with people. I hope you report him and they get rid of him. Just because I'm a worrier, what's to say that if they do get rid of him he knows it was you that complained and takes your mail out of your mailbox anyway to get even with you?

Hopefully that won't happen. Best of luck. Sorry if I scared you.


Kelly