Major BM drama...help me
Ok, so I know my shower is soon. I dont know the details but I do know that its in the near future. Unintentionally, I found out about some drama that has gone on.
From what I hear 1 of my BM is being a royal B****H about everything. She complained about the small amount of money that my mom asked for (first it was 50.00 now its a little bit more) and pretty much everything else. She gave me a hard time about the dress when we ordered it and is just being VERY uncooperative. To the point that my mom and best friend are really holding back on going at it with her.
This is someone who I asked to be in the party because we were very good friends at one point. We did get a bit distant(for unknown reasons) but I asked her anyway (even though I wasnt sure if I should). She appeared to be happy about it when I asked her. When her dress came in, she called me to tell me that it was in (because she REFUSED TO ORDER IT FROM THE DRESS PLACE THAT THE OTHER GIRLS ORDERED IT FROM) and never once said ' Oh Ill send you a picture' or anything. When I asked her how did the blue and silver look together she said ' its nice' ***!!!!
Now she is pulling this BS. I am so upset about it right now.
What should I do....should I talk to her about it after the shower and see whats up and if need be, remove her from the BP or do I just let it go???
Am I over reacting?
From what I hear 1 of my BM is being a royal B****H about everything. She complained about the small amount of money that my mom asked for (first it was 50.00 now its a little bit more) and pretty much everything else. She gave me a hard time about the dress when we ordered it and is just being VERY uncooperative. To the point that my mom and best friend are really holding back on going at it with her.
This is someone who I asked to be in the party because we were very good friends at one point. We did get a bit distant(for unknown reasons) but I asked her anyway (even though I wasnt sure if I should). She appeared to be happy about it when I asked her. When her dress came in, she called me to tell me that it was in (because she REFUSED TO ORDER IT FROM THE DRESS PLACE THAT THE OTHER GIRLS ORDERED IT FROM) and never once said ' Oh Ill send you a picture' or anything. When I asked her how did the blue and silver look together she said ' its nice' ***!!!!
Now she is pulling this BS. I am so upset about it right now.
What should I do....should I talk to her about it after the shower and see whats up and if need be, remove her from the BP or do I just let it go???
Am I over reacting?
