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major question

jenny11.9 Posted:

major question

what am i missing.

all vendors are booked and confirmed.
have to finalize ceremony, ceremony music and dj selections
working on invites
working on ceremony seating
batting around table names and table cards
need to order matches, disposable cameras and favors
costume is done
guest list final
tasting tomorrow
makeup trial saturday
*is there anything major i am forgetting to stress about?
michele31 Posted:

Re: major question

Regarding matches- my hall does not allow smoking AT ALL inside or near the front door. If you are not a smoker just consider that matches are really only used for one thing, smoking.

You need
hair trial
schedule fittings
wedding ring
are you doing programs for your ceremony?, Rehersal, if you are having one
purse of some kind
bridal party gifts
honeymoon/ stuff for honeymoon
favors
register
must have photo list for photographer
where are you staying the night of your wedding
cake design/flavors
little stuff like ring pillow if you have a RB, flower basket for FG, stuff like that



jpsgirl Posted:

matches....

I disagree about the matches thing...at first I felt the same, but A) several of my friends collect matches from various events/restaurants, etc., and B), I love having matches around when I want to light candles and I never have them! I got the box matches and they look nice. Just giving another opinion to the matches thing!

yabbobay Posted:

Re: matches....

Jenny...here was my list, when I had a few months to go....this was thanks to a list I made from Michele...

April
order matches
creat inserts- maps, pictures, directions
buy rings (already picked out)
stamp, stuff and mail invites by 5/1
book honeymoon (i know i know)
choose tuxes
get gms to go and get measured
book limo
mom(s) and dad gift

May
schedule fittings
finalize ceremony
have officiant (friend) and FW over for dinner
GM gifts
Plan rehersal
create reheral invites and mail
have apartment cleaned

June
buy outfits for rehersal and post wedding brunch
decorate bell cards
decorate bubbles
childrens favors
bridal jewelry
thank you gift for rehersal host
thank you gifts for wedding helpers (my cousins)
decorate favors
mail direction cards to vendors
confirm hair and make-up
call no RSVPs
book BM luncheon
mail BM luncheon invites
create programs
meet and finalize plans with vendors
confirm BM have shoes and dresses
buy polaroid, glue/tape and pen for guest book
create sign for guestbook instructions
design disposable camera scavenger hunt
decide ceremony and cocktail music list
phot must haves
go to fitiings

JULY
get marriage license
pick up dress by 7/11
put together hotel packages
bring welcome packages to hotel by 7/11
seating charts
place cards
table cards
confirm hotel room and mini-moon
go to bank and take out cash
prepare tip envelopes
clean ering
pack for mini-moon
have apartment cleaned by 7/8 before in-laws come
7/11-12 drop everything off at hall...

July 14, 2002
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As for matches...My favors are candles, so I figured I should have matches to go with them...we are also having a cigar hour...I also knew I always wanted them, b/c my mother had matches from my uncles wedding, with the date and I always liked that
Niecey Posted:

Re: matches....

yabbobay , wow great list...I may have to borrow some of it!

FI and I hate smoking and I got matches. We thought they were cute and they were relatively cheap so we ordered them. The cocktail hour room has a separate room with a bar we may use for a smoking lounge after the cocktail hour is over!
jennbaby Posted:

Re: matches....

These are great lists! Thanks!
My hall gives matches in our package & I am glad because I like them too.
jenny11.9 Posted:

Re: matches....

this is SO incredible helpful i cannot even tell you - it's so much better to get to do lists from other brides - instead of the knot!!! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

(the matches - we are having a brandy/jazz hour after the event, and they offer cigars - so we are doing cigar matches.)

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