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Major stress!!! ****BIGGGGG UPDATE*******

Original post by Jen2999

So fh and I looked at the cutest little house the other day and we love it. Its only 13 years old and definitely on the small side, but it has a full unfinished basement that we would totlly renovate. The price is right for us and it has a cute little backyard for the pup. I dont think we will find ANYTHING nearly as new or nice for our SUPER low price range in the area we want. Its sachem school district and less than ten mintues from both our parents' houses

Im SOOOO stressed ad nervous about all of this. I SO SO want a house and we have so many ideas as to how to make it our own and fix it up. Its move-in-able now, and we could change things as time goes on.

The thing is, I could see having a baby there, but once it were a few years old, I think we would be cramped and needto move.

Do people stay in their first house? I just hate change I guess so Im freaked out at the thought of having to do this all over again in 5-7 years.

EEEEK!

Advice? I am going back and forth between being so exicted and being sick to my stomach over money.

We are going to bring my dad tomorrow and then we may put in an offer.

Also.. those of you that put in offers.. how much lower did you put in an offer for?


******UPDATE**************

Ok.. so we decided to put in an offer 16k below the asking price... and they countered right away with 10k below the asking price (they already lowered it 10k after putting it on the market)

I think we are going to accept it!!!! My dad said that he can redo the basement with no problem for us and that it is small, but there is potential and its bigger than any apartment that we would get. Plus, fred is a big deciding factor as well.

I know that it may be small on others' standards, but it feels right for us right now, and I think that we are making a good decision.

Im completely FREAKING out, but it will work out.

I will post pictures once we have more definate answers.


Meaghan729 Posted:

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congrats!

MrsStefan Posted:

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CONGRATULATIONS!!! GOOD LUCK!!! You have FM

Zistina Posted:

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Good Luck...FM me if you want a good deal on the mortgage.
DUCKS2001 Posted:

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THIS IS ONLY THE BEIGINNING OF BIG DECISIONS IN YOUR FUTURES TOGETHER. JUST GO FOR IT.

msnora Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999


Posted by bridy06

How many bedrooms?
Could you stay there forever...if you had do - with kids and all?

I bring this up b/c my sister bought a starter house, thinking sh'e d move out and 20 years later and 3 kids later they are still there.

Market changed and life changed and the process of moving was not an option. She loves her neighborhood, but still complains about her house.

It's def great to buy something, but I would go into buying house with the idea that I could stay there for a looong time in case plans didn't work out the way you want them to.

HTH



Two bedrooms, one bathroom

I guess if we HAD to we could somehow add on to it, but I think that for us, we would want to move into something a little more spacious.

The thing is I am a teacher and will be making A LOT more money in the next five years (Im still finishing my masters so thats like a 10k raise right there believe it or not) and then I will be going to school as much as possible to increase my salary. FH is also at a turning point in his job, so I think we would definitely be able to fix up this house, re sell it and move to a bigger house in ten years or so...



I think if you have such a great opportunity it is definitely worth doing. Some don't have that luxury or ability and have to rent but if you can get something that will work for the next 5 years I would say go for it. It will be nice to start your new life together OWNING something together. JMO
Jen2999 Posted:

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I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for the good wishes and advice. I didnt get a chance to respond to all of you personally but I read everything and even read your responses to FH.

I love my LIW girls!!!
beautyq115 Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for the good wishes and advice. I didnt get a chance to respond to all of you personally but I read everything and even read your responses to FH.

I love my LIW girls!!!



Ok Jen...so when are you going to be hosting a GTG at your new home
Jen2999 Posted:

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Posted by beautyq115


Posted by Jen2999

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for the good wishes and advice. I didnt get a chance to respond to all of you personally but I read everything and even read your responses to FH.

I love my LIW girls!!!



Ok Jen...so when are you going to be hosting a GTG at your new home



ASAP.. as soon as the basement is finished!!!

Im wayyyy out east for you nassau girls though...Ill have to make it a summer GTG so the teachers have off and can travel!
mrsgtobe Posted:

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Jen - congratulations!! This is a big and exciting step. I wish you and FH all the best!! Please keep us posted on what happens.

kissy27 Posted:

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Jenn this is such an exciting thing!!! Searching & being a homeowner is definately stressful but well worth it in the end!!!! Don't get ahead of yourself with kids & fixing things up! Remember one key thing, you can live in a house for a lifetime if you choose, so don't rush & do it in time!!!

It is just a HUGE accomplishment to own a house in today's day!!!

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