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Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

eeelisas Posted:

Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

I'm majorly PMSing this week. Last night it was over my dress, tonight it's over a post. I posted about my sister getting to do hair/makeup/wardrobe styling for a local play, and I was so proud and excited for her. No one shared in my enthusiasm, and I admit it really hurt. I even bumped it up, still nothing. She's so talented, and has done websites for some major stores. She's done makeup and hair for fashion shows, photo shoots for models and actors, and now she's doing this play. I was just really excited, and because it got no replies, it dampened my spirits. I wanted to try and promote her as a makeup artist but no takers yet. Maybe it's good though, cause she'd be too busy to take on anything else. I also had a rough week last week...my sister went into the hospital(she's out, thank God, and doing fine), my FH's mom fainted, but she just overworked herself, she's home and fine, and his sister from Italy went back and we won't see them again til our wedding(first time I had met her in three years knowing him too). I think it all just caught up to me!! Here's the post about my sister for those interested. I think the play is the end of this month. It's about a wedding on Long Island!! Gotta be funny! Wedding Play Post

ANYWAY, with that said, I was talking to FH and he's always so understanding and kind during my monthly(he grew up with three sisters, so he really is great during that time), that he cheered me up. He lives in Lindenhurst, me in Coram, about a 40 min. drive. It was 10:45pm when he offered to drive out and meet me at my sister Madelines(we sleep there on the weekends, he on the couch, me on a blow up bed, so we can hang out and be together, cause he's allergic to my cat and can't stay here) because I needed him. He has to get up at 5am to go to work, so if he did that, he'd hardly get any sleep. We would have slept there tonight, but I refused because I don't want to do that to him. I'll get over it. He kept offering, saying he'd grab some clothes and just come out in his pajamas, but I said it's ok, to go to bed. I remember in the beginning of of our relationship he told me, 'I don't play games. What you see now, is what you'll see in 10 years. I don't believe that honeymoon period should ever end. You should always win the other person over, and treat them the way you treat them in the beginning.' Our 3 year dating ann. is February 8, and to this day he has held true to that. In the beginning, he once offered to drive to me at 11pm at night JUST to bring me something to help with a stomach bug I had. He was going to go to CVS, pick something up and bring it to me, then go home. He still would do that today. He even took off work one day, brought me flowers and took care of me when I had just a tiny stomach bug(another one I had). Those are just little things compared to so many other things he's done for me. When I got off the phone, I realized how stupid I sound, and how rediculous I'm being over a few posts. I'm so extremely blessed. I have a great family, and an incredible future to look foward to with my amazing FH. I also have a cute, furry cat that's trying to get my attention. He's standing on the desk, purring like crazy and trying to get my hand to pet him, and go to bed. SO, with that, my vent is over and I'm ok!!! THANKS FOR LISTENING! Thomas is sticking his tongue out to those who didn't reply to my post about my sister! LOLOL Just kidding!!!! really, I'm ok, I'm not upset anymore!! Now I'm sure many of you are going...
afrodyt2000 Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

LMAO your cat is too cute!

ETA I did read your whole post but the cat just got me! So glad your fh is so good to you and congrats to your sister!
BunnyBride Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

OH! I'm sorry you were having a crappy day

If I had seen your post about your sister and the play I definitely would have responded! I'm an actress so I know how hard it can be to get jobs in an artistic field. She must be so excited and you are such a great sister to share her excitement. Congratulate to her!

Your kitty is soooo darn cute! I have to convince FH that we need a cat
billandme Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!


Posted by BunnyBride

OH! I'm sorry you were having a crappy day

If I had seen your post about your sister and the play I definitely would have responded! I'm an actress so I know how hard it can be to get jobs in an artistic field. She must be so excited and you are such a great sister to share her excitement. Congratulate to her!

Your kitty is soooo darn cute! I have to convince FH that we need a cat



Me too!!! I haven't really been on much lately due to work and the planning is in full force, BUT if I had seen that post I definitely would have responded!!!

You ARE very lucky to have such an amazing man in your life......you can tell by the way you talk about him that you already know that

Sorry you're having a crappy day too......it just s uc ks when things aren't going your way, especially when your 'monthly' visit is hanging out with you!!!

Glad you're feeling better though!!!! LOVE your cat! Too cute!
tricia3381 Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

what a sweet guy!!!

dplehat Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

Sorry you had such a crappy week and I hope this week goes better for you. Also if you want a large response to a post try posting during the week. The boards are much more active then.
So sweet of your fh to take such good care of you. Sounds like he will be willing to make those 3am ice cream runs when its time to start your family.
And you do have such a cute little kitty. What happens to kitty when you get married if fh is so allergic?
heatherandrichie Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

I'm sorry you are having a crappy week. It takes those times to realize what is really important.
I post often and no one responds and hurts my feelings too. They view it, but don't comment. I mean, really is it that hard? It upsets me to the point of leaving liw Hope you week gets better
eeelisas Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!


Posted by dplehat

Sorry you had such a crappy week and I hope this week goes better for you. Also if you want a large response to a post try posting during the week. The boards are much more active then.
So sweet of your fh to take such good care of you. Sounds like he will be willing to make those 3am ice cream runs when its time to start your family.
And you do have such a cute little kitty. What happens to kitty when you get married if fh is so allergic?



Well, I can't take my kitty with me, but my family will take care of him. They all love him and he's good with them. Not sure how he'll do without me, but I'll be three doors down if we get this house we're after. Also, you're right about the 3am ice cream runs. FH told me if you think you're pampered now, just wait til you're pregnant! I'm so blessed! I can't wait to marry him! Thanks to ALL of you for the replies!!! It meant a lot to me!! God bless!!!
aprlflwr Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

I hope your week gets better. And Kristy stated it well.......you are lucky that your FH is so supportive.

sugar4spc Posted:

Re: Major Vent!!! I'm ok though!! Long, but the end is worth the read!!

Congrats!! i honestly didnt see your sisters post. my mom has been ill and i am not on as much due to wedding planning and playing nurse (well not playing) 24/7. Sounds like you have a great Man... you founda keeper. Congrats!!

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