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Married / Maiden Name

laurak102476 Posted:

Married / Maiden Name

I know most of the brides are first time brides, but your opinion would be greatly appreciated.

I am making up my STD's and I have a small dillema. This is my second wedding. I kept my married name so this way I would have the same last name as my daughter.

My question is, on both my STD's and invitations, do I use my married name, the one people know me by now, my maiden name (hopefully the people who don't know my maiden name would be able to figure it out!! LOL) or should I hyphenate??

TIA! You girls are the best!!
erdbeere Posted:

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I think I would you your married name..thats what everyone knows you by... so if everyone knows you as Laura a and then your rsvps and what not say laura b people might get confused
MikeandJess Posted:

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Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names

laurak102476 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names



Hmmm...that's an idea....never really thought of that!! LOL
laurak102476 Posted:

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Posted by erdbeere

I think I would you your married name..thats what everyone knows you by... so if everyone knows you as Laura a and then your rsvps and what not say laura b people might get confused



That seems to be what most are saying. It just seemed weird, you know?
kabo0831 Posted:

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married name

lunabride Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names



I agree. Using just your first names would work. That's what we did.
erdbeere Posted:

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Posted by laurak102476


Posted by MikeandJess

Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names



Hmmm...that's an idea....never really thought of that!! LOL



yea that would work with the STDs but not the invitations
laurak102476 Posted:

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Thanks girls for the advice. I think I am going to just use my name I have now. You're right, that's the name everyone knows me by.

Thanks again!!!
Mmnnng Posted:

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We eloped two years ago but had NO ONE at our wedding....so we are treating this like our first wedding, since we both have the same last name now, we aren't using it on the STD

luna bride x Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names



yeah no last names on my save the dates either.. but i'd use your married name either way
laurak102476 Posted:

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Thanks girls!!!

Nina_m74 Posted:

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Posted by lunabride


Posted by MikeandJess

Maybe you can just not use last names? Most STD's don't have last names



I agree. Using just your first names would work. That's what we did.



I think this is a good idea too
Anthonysgirl Posted:

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I would probably use your married name since you have used it for so long and that's what everyone knows you as.

MrsD71208 Posted:

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Use the name everyone knows you by.

tbone66 Posted:

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I would just use your married name if that is the name that you go by.

laurak102476 Posted:

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Thanks...I am going to make them up tonight and use my name that I go by now. Thanks for all your opinions!!!

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