So...about a week or so ago I posted something on here about a bridesmaid problem and I just go an email from her with the link for the conversation and she has informed me that she wants out of the wedding which is fine and will not, in my opinion hurt our friendship.
NOTHING PISSES ME OFF MORE THEN HOW SHE GOT THE LINK, WHICH i DONT KNOW, AND i FEEL LIKE i CAN'T POST ANYTHING ON HERE ANYMORE.
I thought I was asking help from you lovely ladies and now someone is lurking and interfering...I am pissed off/.
KrisD72310
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Oh man, that's ridiculous. Some people are so childish!
mares2000
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it is like high school drama and crap all over again...I am 30 years old and dont want to deal with this stuff anymore
kimmaymb20
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remember that anyone can read this site so becareful what you post
Jna2010
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sorry thats really frustraing, youre one outlet gets thrown in your face.... ive heard of this happening before but i just dont get it, i mean if i was a bridesmaid i could car eless what the ef the rbide was writing about in some blog, much less care enoguh to actually go snooping lol
she should have at keast spoken to you about it rather than just not being in your bp, you would think your friendship would go a little deeper then that
mares2000
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true to the last comment but it seems someone who knows the situation leaked information to her...most people on this site are looking for wedding help or wedding things and nothing else...I would love to know how she got the link
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true to the last comment but it seems someone who knows the situation leaked information to her...most people on this site are looking for wedding help or wedding things and nothing else...I would love to know how she got the link
wow if thats the case then people need to not care so much about other peoples business and stuff that doesnt concern them
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This has happened so many times. I think we should keep our BP and family vents to the 2010 bride Facebook page. Its a closed group and you have to be ok'd to join. This way we can vent and not worry about lurkers!
I am so sorry this happened
GR2010
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true to the last comment but it seems someone who knows the situation leaked information to her...most people on this site are looking for wedding help or wedding things and nothing else...I would love to know how she got the link
Like Kim said ANYONE can access this site so you just have to be careful what you say... a lot of ladies have lurkers so they pull their threads after they vent or get the advice they're looking for...
If things are ok with you and your friend I wouldn't worry, now neither of you have to worry about the pink elephant in the room.
Guccibags
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Wow that's crazy!!!!
KrisD72310
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Ridiculous that we have to worry about 'lurkers'. Can't believe that. This is why I haven't posted pics of my gown. I'm afraid to!
This has happened so many times. I think we should keep our BP and family vents to the 2010 bride Facebook page. Its a closed group and you have to be ok'd to join. This way we can vent and not worry about lurkers!
I am so sorry this happened
this is a really good idea this website is public and anyone can read what you write sorry this happened to you
JAAMS
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Sorry that this happened to you
futuremrsjc2010
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Wow!! I hope everything works out
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Posted by Future Mrs H
This has happened so many times. I think we should keep our BP and family vents to the 2010 bride Facebook page. Its a closed group and you have to be ok'd to join. This way we can vent and not worry about lurkers!
I am so sorry this happened
OMG- I'm freaking out now-I'm always venting... I think I'll finally join Facebook...How does it work?, does someone have to invite me or something?
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I'm sorry this happened to you, I had something similar happen a few years ago BUT it taught me the lesson that once you put something on the internet, its out of your control. But i'm sorry I just dont understand what the deal is w/lurkers??? I mean I have told a few ppl that I am on this site, including FH but I know none of them would come on to spy on me!!!! It just always makes me when you ladies post something and say you are going to pull b/c of lurkers. If I were you, get a new profile!!
mariedsgn
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that takes balls! so sorry this happened to you!
MarjorieFrank
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That s*cks! I am surprised all the b!tching I do on this site hasn't come back to bite me in my *** just yet lol.
little j
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does she know you use this site? maybe she was just reading and found it.
either way it stinks. sorry
and i think puttin things on FB is a good idea. ive done that in the past...its just one less thing to worry about (deleting vent, etc)
