but... 5 of my BM didn't come to my bach party and not 1 of them asked how it was
ETA: A couple had valid reasons why they couldn't come. I'm just a little surprised that no one asked how it was
toniann921
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Noooooooooo! You're not being emotional... I would definitely be upset too.
ooxrosaliexoo
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that does NOT sound right! id be soooo upset, you are in the right!
FutureJOC
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I would totally be upset about that too! Why couldn't they come? Was it destination and they couldn't afford to go/take the time off?
Watermelon5
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ur not being emotional; unless they have financial issues that you are aware of i would expect them to be there
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but... 5 of my BM didn't come to my bach party and not 1 of them asked how it was
I would totally cry!!! That is horrible. Maybe they are just jealous because they missed out?
annabellagirl
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are u serious? im sorry :(
i posted yesterday because one of my best friends said she will do her best to come to mine... and mine is over a year away!
i know we get very sensitive with wedding plans and all, but i would be upset too
Yankeeelove
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Wow I would be pissed if any of my bm's didn't come! Don't worry your not over emotional. I'm sorry.
CaliBrideInNY
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I dont think you are being emotional at all! your BM are supposed to be the closest of your closets friends, I know life happens and things come up, but to not even ask...i'd be hurt too
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FutureMrsDe
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I have one brides maid not comming to my shower and i was going to cry. i think at this time it is ok to be emotional.
FROMJLATOJLK
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You are not being emotional AT ALL!!! Unless it's something like going to Vegas I can understand people not being able to financially stretch it but if it's something relatively reasonable I really don't see legitimate reasons why they shouldn't be there to celebrate with you.
