memory candle table help!

We are having a little memory table... Fh has a grandmother that passed away and a grandfather that passed away but their husband/wife is still alive and will be at the wedding...

we have a pic of each of them seperate and we have a pic of each of them with their husband/wife who is still alive...

which one should we use? FH is like ' WHY ARE WE KILLING ME GRANDFATHER' he thinks because he in the picture with his grandmother who has passed it makes it seem like he is also..

But I think that they would be so happy to see a pic of them with their husband/wife ..its really for us and the people who know them and obviously they know who passed...

what you girls think?

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Posted by Tracey1979

I am with FH - it may confuse guests who don't know the situation, etc., too.

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I agree too.

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Posted by Wifeynella

I'm with your FH as well.

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ITA

haha ok thanks girls so much ! you really helped because I was totally unsure what to do !