menu options???

Fh and I are getting response cards back now (actually tomorrow is our rsvp by date) and about 5 or 6 people from different parts of the country have contacted us or my mom asking where they make their dinner selection or if they need to write it in. I think this might be common in some places. A couple fo teh epople were in Maine, one from boston, one from seattle, and one from Ohio. And we tell all of them that you dont have to decide now, they ask you at the wedding and they all responded with some variation of 'ohhh your having a buffet!' I think most of them will think my cocktail hour is the dinner!

Now won't they be surprised after eating all the food at the cocktail hour....

i recieved an invitation to my friend in Florida's wedding and it had a little card that asked you to choose beef or chicken i guess thats the way its done other places

---

Posted by bluekat16

Now won't they be surprised after eating all the food at the cocktail hour....

---

We actually had a guest from California who really did think the cocktail hour was dinner!

HaHa and here I thought that you always had to give a choice! I didn't realize that places didn't need to know how many of each ahead of time! I've never been to one where the dinner choice wasn't on the RSVP card... but I haven't been to many weddings.

My friends from out of town were astounded when they went to a wedding at Russo's. They thought the cocktail hour was the wedding.
Later that year, I went to her wedding in New Orleans and it was standing room only (no tables with chairs) and hor doerves....

---

Posted by Emily08

That's too funny.. poor people, they think you're having an all you can eat smorgisborg! Did you guys tell them it's not buffet?

---

weddings are different everywhere you go, as much as we are shocked by what people may say or ask, we should also remember that receptions vary.

It's funny, but they will be totally shocked to get a choice of their meal right there.

me <~~~ dumb kansas hick

---

Posted by LoriBeth2728

HaHa and here I thought that you always had to give a choice! I didn't realize that places didn't need to know how many of each ahead of time! I've never been to one where the dinner choice wasn't on the RSVP card... but I haven't been to many weddings.

---

i thought the same thing!

lol we will have many OOT guests... wonder what they will think