So much has been going on lately I feel like I am going to explode or have a mental breakdown!!!!!!!!!!! So FH hasn't spoken to his mother in about 3 months now, as she has been showing no interest in the wedding and has made more than a few insulting comments about him and I. FH won't even tell me what she said about me because he said he knows I am going through a great deal right now and he is afraid I may have an exacerbation. He spoke to his father and his father believes she is jealous of me. This whole things is out of control!!!!! So Saturday we get a call that she was rushed to the hospital cause she was found passed out in the apt. After hours and hours of convincing he finally decided that we should go to the hospital to visit her. This was like the second time in our 6 years together that I have seen FH choked up. So we get there and she was speaking to him a little, she also spoke to me, but FH was very standoffish. He said that things aren't the same anymore. Any way, she is still in the hospital and they think it could be her heart, but who knows. I have no idea how we will get over this obstacle!!!!!!!!!
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ugh, I'm so sorry to hear that. So stressful for you guys and the whole family.
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I'm so sorry you guys are going through a hard time like that!! You're in my thoughts!
Everything will work out!
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I agree!! Just be there for each other...be supportive and thats all you can do!! Maybe this will make FMIL realize whats important in her life!!
We are here for you Ren!!!
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Praying for your FMIL! and hoping things get better for you FH and his mom
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I agree!! Just be there for each other...be supportive and thats all you can do!! Maybe this will make FMIL realize whats important in her life!!
We are here for you Ren!!!
ITA...best of luck!!!
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well said.
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I agree!! Just be there for each other...be supportive and thats all you can do!! Maybe this will make FMIL realize whats important in her life!!
We are here for you Ren!!!
ita
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope his mom gets better soon and that this whole obstacle brings all 3 of you closer together! Sometimes it takes something big to make people realize what they have and hopefully this will make her see how lucky she is that her son has found a wonderful wife for himself!
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Thanks girls, I couldn't ask for better support!!!!!!!
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope his mom gets better soon and that this whole obstacle brings all 3 of you closer together! Sometimes it takes something big to make people realize what they have and hopefully this will make her see how lucky she is that her son has found a wonderful wife for himself!
exactly!
i hope she's better soon and things work themselves out.
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope his mom gets better soon and that this whole obstacle brings all 3 of you closer together! Sometimes it takes something big to make people realize what they have and hopefully this will make her see how lucky she is that her son has found a wonderful wife for himself!
ita.. you will get through this. Just be there for each other. Hopefully this will bring the 3 of you closer together.
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**HUGS**
I can't tell you not to stress, but you know it will do you no good, especially with our condition
I really hope there can be peace in the family.
this should be a great time of exciting planning and celebration- I'm so sorry there is all this underlying pain and animosity :(
i hope you FH's mom feel better, and i hope this whole thing serve to remind htem how short life is, and what really important. LOVE and FAMILY
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope his mom gets better soon and that this whole obstacle brings all 3 of you closer together! Sometimes it takes something big to make people realize what they have and hopefully this will make her see how lucky she is that her son has found a wonderful wife for himself!
ITA. I hope she's ok and I think this will give you all an opportunity to put things in perspective and work through your issues to be a happier family.
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope his mom gets better soon and that this whole obstacle brings all 3 of you closer together! Sometimes it takes something big to make people realize what they have and hopefully this will make her see how lucky she is that her son has found a wonderful wife for himself!
Well said.
I hope everything turns around for everyone involved. FMIL is in our prayers and we are ALL hoping for a happy outcome! We really are all here for you!!
