I expected that I would not get all of my RSVP's back but I am less then a week away from RSVP date and missing well over 100 of them yet. It is about 200 people I am waiting for a response on.
KSquared
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Most people wait until the last minute to send them back. Several people will probably send them out on the RSVP date, so don't panic yet.
I think as brides sometimes we forget that other people have their lives going on as usual and aren't just focused on our weddings, lol. So even though we think about it everyday, other people don't. But you'll probably get most of them this week, and the ones you don't - I had my parents or DH's parents call to find out what their deal was.
It's annoying, and we all freak about it, but they'll come in!
LIBride1121
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Don’t feel bad. I have 2 weeks until my wedding and I still haven’t gotten all my RSVP’s back yet and the response date was 2 weeks ago. Even better, a few people that responded yes have recently called to say they can’t make it. It’s so frustrating and it gets worse when you have to call all of the no responses. Good luck!
RockysGirl
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i had that kinda problem also. Everybody kept telling me that most of my rsvps would come in on the last week, but actually I got absolutely none that week. So on the deadline date I was still missing about 40 responses. Since that day also ended up being my Shower, I just asked the individual people as they were leaving whether they knew if they'd be able to come or not. Most of them looked at me like I had three heads, all like 'Of course we're coming! We wouldn't miss it!' I told them I was very happy to hear that, I only asked because i never got their RSVP. Most seemed genuinely embarrassed about forgetting. So it's not that they're necessarily rude people who don't give a crap, most just think 'Hey, I'm gonna go to that' and then assume you can read minds and forget to mail it in. You'll definitely need to hunt some people down, which is a pain, but I'm pretty sure most will be apologetic for making you do that. Don't let yourself stress out about it. You'll get them all in time for the Final Count at the RH.
Kricket212
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Posted by Hawks Nest
I expected that I would not get all of my RSVP's back but I am less then a week away from RSVP date and missing well over 100 of them yet. It is about 200 people I am waiting for a response on.
Thats crazy.....I guess because of christmas though. Good Luck to you
bluekat16
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OMG!!!
But as ROky's girls said many people procrastinate to the point of forgetting. I know there are people who have told me they are coming but I have yet to recieve the RSVP card.
I think after your RSVP date you'll just have to call
