missing rsvp's

MikeandJess Posted: Aug 01, 2008 09:14 AM

missing rsvp's

Is it acceptable to e-mail a friendly reminder to those who have not sent back their rsvp's?

ksandjj Posted: Aug 01, 2008 10:33 AM

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I don't see why not - especially if you correspond via email regularly with this person.

ChiefMT Posted: Aug 01, 2008 10:37 AM

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absolutely. i did.

hb123 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 10:53 AM

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Definately!

Newsysuzy12 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:03 AM

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good idea

anamaree77 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:04 AM

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I did and I still had to call people...repeatedly

People s*u*c*k.

AMGBride2008 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:04 AM

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Has your RSVP date passed? If it has, than I would either e-mail or call (I personally would call so I would get them on the phone instead of waiting for an email back).

Lisafer1973 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:07 AM

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my date was today and i am still missing about 30 of them I am calling them all on Monday.

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:25 AM

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My date is today too! Would it be horrible to not chase these people down? If they don't RSVP, why should I call them or try to track them down, ya know? Less people I have to pay for, that's how I look at it. Most of them are on FH's list and I could care less if they don't come. I told him, who didn't respond and he said he wasn't going to chase them down either.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:28 AM

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I think that is a brillant Idea! My deadline is coming up quickly!!!

I just wish we would of made it back in July instead of August!

MikeandJess Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:32 AM

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Posted by AMGBride2008

Has your RSVP date passed? If it has, than I would either e-mail or call (I personally would call so I would get them on the phone instead of waiting for an email back).

it's today, I'm going to e-mail them letting them know the RSVP date was today. I know people are busy with other things. If they dont' respond to the e-mail I'd definitely call them, well depending on how much I like them

MikeandJess Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:33 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsBrady

My date is today too! Would it be horrible to not chase these people down? If they don't RSVP, why should I call them or try to track them down, ya know? Less people I have to pay for, that's how I look at it. Most of them are on FH's list and I could care less if they don't come. I told him, who didn't respond and he said he wasn't going to chase them down either.

I honestly don't plan on chasing everyone down. There are people invited that I knew weren't coming. I'd just be upset if they actually did come and didn't RSVP. We made our minimum so I really don't care either way, I know it sounds terrible!

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:38 AM

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I am waiting on 93 people to tell me if they are coming...I hope they don't....
Because I already have 259 that are!

enewedding Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:39 AM

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My RSVP is in 2 weeks
I sent out 26 invitations 3 weeks ago
and i have received a total of 7 back thus far.

I swear next time we are doing something I am going to save my time, engery and money and just send out e-vite.

MikeandJess Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:44 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsBrady

I am waiting on 93 people to tell me if they are coming...I hope they don't....
Because I already have 259 that are!

We have 139 coming and our minimum is 150 but we have 4 members of the bridal party that haven't even RSVP'd yet! Why don't people take this seriously?! It's so frustrating. We're waiting on 73 people, and they're mostly FH's friends and family, I feel bad for him!

GinaZ Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:46 AM

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Posted by MikeandJess

Is it acceptable to e-mail a friendly reminder to those who have not sent back their rsvp's?

yes it is if it is two weeks before the wedding. In general I think halls need the count one week before so usually people expect that rsvp dates are three weeks before the wedding. Goodluck!!!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:51 AM

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Posted by enewedding

My RSVP is in 2 weeks
I sent out 26 invitations 3 weeks ago
and i have received a total of 7 back thus far.

I swear next time we are doing something I am going to save my time, engery and money and just send out e-vite.

I hear you on that!!!!!!! When is your rsvp date?

Bride908 Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:55 AM

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My RSVP is today - I missing 20 replys. I know about half of them are coming, the others I have no idea. I guess me and FH will call. I would just like to say forget it but who knows if they will show up?

enewedding Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:58 AM

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Posted by MikeandJess

Posted by SoonToBeMrsBrady

I am waiting on 93 people to tell me if they are coming...I hope they don't....
Because I already have 259 that are!

We have 139 coming and our minimum is 150 but we have 4 members of the bridal party that haven't even RSVP'd yet! Why don't people take this seriously?! It's so frustrating. We're waiting on 73 people, and they're mostly FH's friends and family, I feel bad for him!

Our minimum is 50 and including me and FH we have 11 people coming (so far, i hope)

enewedding Posted: Aug 01, 2008 11:59 AM

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Posted by sweetdoublenn

Posted by enewedding

My RSVP is in 2 weeks
I sent out 26 invitations 3 weeks ago
and i have received a total of 7 back thus far.

I swear next time we are doing something I am going to save my time, engery and money and just send out e-vite.

I hear you on that!!!!!!! When is your rsvp date?

I wanted to use 08/08/08 as our RSVP but we got the invites out late so we went with 08/15/08.

At this point we could have just sent out e-vites the day before.