MOH

stacey516 Posted: May 27, 2010 06:04 PM

MOH

So, I am away on another trip for work so I have lots of time to think! My MOH (who is my sister) and I have not spoken in two weeks. She just told my mom that she doesn't want to be a part of the wedding Actually, it stinks because I wasn't going to have a bridal party, just the MOH. I am trying to remain positive and I am TRYING not to feel down about it. Gee, can't she just look at it as one of the most important days of my life and just do it??? One of my closest friends is going to walk down with me on that day. She is wonderful! I am so thankful to have her as a friend!
trying to remain positive!

jackieee Posted: May 27, 2010 06:05 PM

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WHY????? Did she tell you why? Were you guys close? Did you a fight?

Im sooo sorry

AwaitingAugust Posted: May 27, 2010 06:07 PM

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i'm sorry i hope she changes her mind about it!

stacey516 Posted: May 27, 2010 06:16 PM

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Yes, we had a fight about something unrelated. It was so silly! But then the truth started coming out and she said that she is 'sick of hearing about the wedding!'. We were close but I wonder if this might change things...

MisyMiss32 Posted: May 27, 2010 06:22 PM

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Hang in there hun.

elisa112101 Posted: May 27, 2010 06:24 PM

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i hate to sound snotty but your sister is being WAYYYYYYYYYY selfish!!!!! this is your time and the fact that she cant scuk it up and smile for you is awful!!!!!!!!!!!! im sorry your dealing with this crap

stacey516 Posted: May 27, 2010 06:25 PM

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Posted by MisyMiss32

Hang in there hun. [/QUOTEou!

Thank you!

Sweetie51804 Posted: May 27, 2010 07:08 PM

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Nina1010 Posted: May 27, 2010 07:27 PM

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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: May 27, 2010 07:40 PM

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wow sounds like a severe case of jealousy and that really suc ks. Im sorry!

cateydee Posted: May 27, 2010 08:08 PM

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so sorry to hear that!

Windy Posted: May 27, 2010 08:11 PM

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My sister backed out from being my MOH too - it really sux.... sorry ur going through this...

stacey516 Posted: May 27, 2010 11:02 PM

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Posted by elisa112101

i hate to sound snotty but your sister is being WAYYYYYYYYYY selfish!!!!! this is your time and the fact that she cant scuk it up and smile for you is awful!!!!!!!!!!!! im sorry your dealing with this crap

You are SO right...that's why it hurts so much! Thank you so much for your support

stacey516 Posted: May 27, 2010 11:03 PM

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thank you all so much!!!

MrsSx2 Posted: May 27, 2010 11:11 PM

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So sorry you're going through this! That really s.ucks!

lela7378 Posted: May 27, 2010 11:14 PM

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That *****! is there any way to talk to your sister? I hope that things turn around for you on this situation

joctorre Posted: May 28, 2010 12:14 AM

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Posted by stacey516

Yes, we had a fight about something unrelated. It was so silly! But then the truth started coming out and she said that she is 'sick of hearing about the wedding!'. We were close but I wonder if this might change things...

Is she not married? Older? Younger? I want to say that this will all be so stupid afterwards. Esp if you were close.... I feel like a lot of people get 'sick of hearing about the wedding' and you just have to kind of make sure that you talk about other things with her and have a few times where you make sure you don't talk about the wedding AT ALL and make it all about her, or something else....

Either way, we're all here for you. I just don't want either of you to regret it... Is that your true wedding date on here? You still have SOME time, no? Have she gotten her dress yet?????

marinai7 Posted: May 28, 2010 07:18 AM

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I'm sorry that stinks. I hope she comes to her senses.

bluj786 Posted: May 28, 2010 07:22 AM

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Posted by elisa112101

i hate to sound snotty but your sister is being WAYYYYYYYYYY selfish!!!!! this is your time and the fact that she cant scuk it up and smile for you is awful!!!!!!!!!!!! im sorry your dealing with this crap

ITA, and when its all over she might feel like an a ss that this is what she choose. sorry you have to deal with this.

stacey516 Posted: May 28, 2010 04:38 PM

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Posted by joctorre

Posted by stacey516

Yes, we had a fight about something unrelated. It was so silly! But then the truth started coming out and she said that she is 'sick of hearing about the wedding!'. We were close but I wonder if this might change things...

Is she not married? Older? Younger? I want to say that this will all be so stupid afterwards. Esp if you were close.... I feel like a lot of people get 'sick of hearing about the wedding' and you just have to kind of make sure that you talk about other things with her and have a few times where you make sure you don't talk about the wedding AT ALL and make it all about her, or something else....

Either way, we're all here for you. I just don't want either of you to regret it... Is that your true wedding date on here? You still have SOME time, no? Have she gotten her dress yet?????

Thank you so much! Yes, that is my wedding date. We were close before this all happened. And what triggered it had NOTHING to do with me! She had not gotten her dress and she didn't want to come with me to look for mine when I did. That should have been the first signal! You are so right, if we looked back on all this, it would seem silly. She is married but she didn't have a 'wedding', she got married at city hall. She actually admitted her jealously!