MOH

So everytime I talk to my MOH about fh and I getting married and wedding planning and all that she makes some kind of comment about me being such a 'young' bride, by the time we get married I will be 25. I never thought being 24 and engaged was all that young. The other day she was saying how everyone at my wedding will be black out drunk because it'll be such a 'young' wedding. For starters fh isn't that young hes 31! lol
Idk what the deal is but its starting to bug me. Is this her way of trying to tell me she doesn't think I should get married?

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Maybe you should talk to her and let her know this is bothering you? Since she is your MOh, she is going to be very involved and it might be good to address this in the beginning.

HTH!

Could your MOH be jealous? I just turned 25, FH is still 24, and no one has said anything about us being too young - and with veryyy outspoken families, I'm surprised. It sounds like maybe she's trying to rain on your parade because she might wish things in her life had fallen into place at a young age. Whatever the reason, I'm sorry Hopefully she'll snap out of that rude streak.

First of all, is your MOH married? If not, it could just be sour grapes! She really isn't being supportive at all.

My MOH was 21 when she got married, and had a 2 year old at the time. She always makes comments about being happy that she was such a young mom and how she has the energy to be around her (soon to be) 4 children. I'll be 28 when I get married (UGH!) and want to start a family not too long after, but it does bug me that she says those things, like I won't be a 'young' mom. So I can completely see how you feel.

Honestly, I would just ignore her comments. Obviously she has something up her butt for no reason. As long as you're happy - that's all that matters!

Shes not married but shes been with the same guy since her last semester of high school. She is two years younger than I am. Whenever I ask her if she thinks her and her bf will talk marriage soon she always says oh no I'm way too young maybe in like five years. That's fine for her if that is what she wants, but FH and I have been together for two years already and we both know what we want, but why should I wait? Besides he's not getting any younger Me on the other hand I'm staying 25 forever! lol Thanks for the support girlies

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Posted by Kguardz

So everytime I talk to my MOH about fh and I getting married and wedding planning and all that she makes some kind of comment about me being such a 'young' bride, by the time we get married I will be 25. I never thought being 24 and engaged was all that young. The other day she was saying how everyone at my wedding will be black out drunk because it'll be such a 'young' wedding. For starters fh isn't that young hes 31! lol
Idk what the deal is but its starting to bug me. Is this her way of trying to tell me she doesn't think I should get married?

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Ridiculous!! BTW I am 24 and FH is 31 as well I know how you feel!

Ridiculous!! BTW I am 24 and FH is 31 as well I know how you feel!

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Aw thanks girly! I have so many friends who have been so supportive and then a few who are kinda weird about our age difference but screw them older men are hot

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Posted by Kguardz



Ridiculous!! BTW I am 24 and FH is 31 as well I know how you feel!

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Aw thanks girly! I have so many friends who have been so supportive and then a few who are kinda weird about our age difference but screw them older men are hot

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LOL and more mature!

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Posted by Kguardz

Shes not married but shes been with the same guy since her last semester of high school. She is two years younger than I am. Whenever I ask her if she thinks her and her bf will talk marriage soon she always says oh no I'm way too young maybe in like five years. That's fine for her if that is what she wants, but FH and I have been together for two years already and we both know what we want, but why should I wait? Besides he's not getting any younger Me on the other hand I'm staying 25 forever! lol Thanks for the support girlies

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Ok I know what it is! I bet this is the bf saying they are too young to get married anytime soon! I saw this with a former friend. She used to say all this mean stuff (like when I moved in with FH all I heard was 'oh why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?' 'I'd NEVER move in with my bf before we're married!') when in reality her BF didn't want her to move in with him and has NOT talked about marriage. She's 3 or 4 years younger than me, but they've been together 5 years.

Like I said, don't worry about her. She has a bug up her butt.

everyone is different... i will be 32 when we get married and fh will be 33, and we have been together for 11 years. I personally could not see either of us getting married when we were 25 but WE were not ready.

that being said my FBIL got married at 25 to the girl he dated in hs, together for 7 yrs. they WERE ready to get married.

if she cant be supportive you need to tell her to politely shuttie and get over it.

you get married whenever you want!

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Posted by mattandjess2013

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Posted by Kguardz

Shes not married but shes been with the same guy since her last semester of high school. She is two years younger than I am. Whenever I ask her if she thinks her and her bf will talk marriage soon she always says oh no I'm way too young maybe in like five years. That's fine for her if that is what she wants, but FH and I have been together for two years already and we both know what we want, but why should I wait? Besides he's not getting any younger Me on the other hand I'm staying 25 forever! lol Thanks for the support girlies

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Ok I know what it is! I bet this is the bf saying they are too young to get married anytime soon! I saw this with a former friend. She used to say all this mean stuff (like when I moved in with FH all I heard was 'oh why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?' 'I'd NEVER move in with my bf before we're married!') when in reality her BF didn't want her to move in with him and has NOT talked about marriage. She's 3 or 4 years younger than me, but they've been together 5 years.

Like I said, don't worry about her. She has a bug up her butt.

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This. I have a friend who was with her bf for awhile and whenever marriage was brought up she kept saying how she's not ready yet and maybe down the line when they're both a little older they'll think about it. Well a month later he proposed and all of a sudden she changed her tune.

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Posted by mattandjess2013

First of all, is your MOH married? If not, it could just be sour grapes! She really isn't being supportive at all.

My MOH was 21 when she got married, and had a 2 year old at the time. She always makes comments about being happy that she was such a young mom and how she has the energy to be around her (soon to be) 4 children. I'll be 28 when I get married (UGH!) and want to start a family not too long after, but it does bug me that she says those things, like I won't be a 'young' mom. So I can completely see how you feel.

Honestly, I would just ignore her comments. Obviously she has something up her butt for no reason. As long as you're happy - that's all that matters!

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ill be 28 when i get married too, and i still think we are young brides and eventually moms! lol

but i agree it sounds like shes taking her own issues out on you, dont let anyone ruin your special time :)

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Posted by Kristin31613

Unfortunately she posted later that they broke up. I am wondering if maybe her MoH could see something was wrong and it wasn't so much about age? IDK, very sad situation.

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Agreed