so my moh just called to tell me about her crazy night of drinking and hunting for dudes - and I went to tell her I got my shoes for the wedding and thank god they are comfortable because she had me scared...
you know what she says 'well wait till you walk in them they are uncomfortable shoes and your crazy'
***? its not about the shoes anymore - its about how my MOH can suck so bad! She is the most unsupportive person ever.
Wow that really sucks. Perhaps say something to her about it?
barbeik005
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Ugh, I don't get why she can't just be happy for you!! You are too patient! I think I may have killed her by now
cms82288
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im sure shes just jealous of the fabulous relationship you have with justin... and the fact that shes threatened she may never get to that point... anyway im sure the shoes are great.. and maybe she doesnt realize the impact her words are towards you.
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Ugh, I don't get why she can't just be happy for you!! You are too patient! I think I may have killed her by now
AGREEEEE'D LOL
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Wow that really sucks. Perhaps say something to her about it?
I did! the other day I went off on her and told her I am sick of her critism that she pretends to disguise as constructive critism.... we got through it - or so I thought...
I dunno what to do... I am sad that my MOH isnt there for me, my mom isnt there for me...I feel like I am in this whole wedding thing alone :( Thank god for LIW or else it would really suck!
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Wow that really sucks. Perhaps say something to her about it?
I did! the other day I went off on her and told her I am sick of her critism that she pretends to disguise as constructive critism.... we got through it - or so I thought...
I dunno what to do... I am sad that my MOH isnt there for me, my mom isnt there for me...I feel like I am in this whole wedding thing alone :( Thank god for LIW or else it would really suck!
Ugh!! I promise some more girl bonding when I get back from vacation!!
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I got your back sistaaaa
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I am in the same boat kinda. I think your friends that are in your age group might be jealous that you are doing something they aspire to do. I dont want to throw age into everything but maybe it's just immaturity on their part?
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I kinda agree, I have always hung with a crowd much older than me and because I moved out so young - I lived alot more at a younger age - I feel like my friends are just starting to live on their own.... Its difficult...
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I kinda agree, I have always hung with a crowd much older than me and because I moved out so young - I lived alot more at a younger age - I feel like my friends are just starting to live on their own.... Its difficult...
Totally agree but i'm not sure it's ALWAYS age.....because some of my friends who are older than me.. .are more immature than the ones that are my age lol
Wow that really sucks. Perhaps say something to her about it?
I did! the other day I went off on her and told her I am sick of her critism that she pretends to disguise as constructive critism.... we got through it - or so I thought...
I dunno what to do... I am sad that my MOH isnt there for me, my mom isnt there for me...I feel like I am in this whole wedding thing alone :( Thank god for LIW or else it would really suck!
In that case I think you should be like, 'remember that conversation we had? It's happening again and I don't like it. I made you my MOH because I value your opinion, but I need you to also support me when I make my own decisions.'
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Wow that really sucks. Perhaps say something to her about it?
I did! the other day I went off on her and told her I am sick of her critism that she pretends to disguise as constructive critism.... we got through it - or so I thought...
I dunno what to do... I am sad that my MOH isnt there for me, my mom isnt there for me...I feel like I am in this whole wedding thing alone :( Thank god for LIW or else it would really suck!
In that case I think you should be like, 'remember that conversation we had? It's happening again and I don't like it. I made you my MOH because I value your opinion, but I need you to also support me when I make my own decisions.'
This, exactly.
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Ugh! Sorry your going through this. I feel like I'm going through this with one of my bridesmaids
cms82288
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i went thru crap like this with a bridesmaid b4 and thats y i kicked her out.. didnt need the petty drama for my special day.. and neither do you... if u have already told her how u feel and she continues to put u down.. u have to think .. is it worth it ?
