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MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

missjones2007 Posted:

MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

ok so my MOH came here on Friday to get order her dress and be at the e party. She stayed with me the whole time she was here. Things were going great!. We were hanging toghether like old times.

Only problem whole time she was here she was supposed to help me cook but didnt, help eric and I set up for the party but didnt, only thing she did was make CD's for the party and took all day with those! at the party we ran out of chicken wings so i asked her to go to KFC to get more chicken and she copped an attitude with me. I told her eric or i cant leave becasuse we are hosting this party!!

Sunday after church we left early to pick up my little cousins so they can order their dresses and headed straight to Eva's. She got measured and they told her she needs to order a size 30. She whined and complained about being a size 24 and thought they were lying. The lady explained that Impression dresses are international sizes and not american so the dresses run differently. You can tell that the woman was getting irritated with her. So she has a different shade of pink dress...now she wants a different bok from the other girls....i said ok I will talk to Katrina( my florst) and we can discuss what she wants.

after we were done I took the girls back home and told her that I wanted to rest in becuase i was tired from all the running i was doing for the party. we went back to my house and she fell asleep. I received a call from FH telling me that his godsister came by. I really wanted to meet her so i told MOH that ill be right back and after that we can go to walgreens to get the pics developed and the beauty supply store cause she needed some braid sheen for her kinkies.

I left and went to eric's for a hour. next thing i know she called me and told me she was leaving and going to Racine to stay with her uncle and aunt.

they came and picked her up from my home. and she told me that she had nothing to say to me. I asked her what i did wrong

I found out that she was angry because i shut her out the whole time she was there which was not true and she said that im letting this little 1ct ring get to my head and i think im the **** now cause im getting married!

i felt kind of bad for leaving but i was only gone for an hour and she was knocked out sleep

she said she made a 3 hour trip to be with me on my day

be honest guys....was I wrong?
ItalianMcBride09 Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

I dont think you were wrong, but I would have wok her up and brought her, however she is over reacting

maggie728 Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

I don't think so, I just think you were looking for a little help.

Ednkim4eva Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

I think weddings are stressful for everyone involved....I don't think you were wrong, but I think you need to give your friend extra TLC. She seems to be vulnerable right now.

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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She is over reacting...not you
She seems like she wants all the attention...be careful..somepeople try to take the spotlight away from the bride and it seems like thats what shes doing already
shell1879 Posted:

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sounds to me like some one has a tad bit of a jellouse patch going.... i was not happy that i had to go up 3 sizes for my dress but what can i do it's the way they are cut.

i wouldn't let it bother you and it's your wedding it should be what you want not what your MOH wants she can have it her way at her wedding.

the way i see it i'm paying for pretty much everything but their dresses so it's my choice!

i ask for comments and opinions but made it very clear from day 1 that i'm only doing this once so it will be exactally how i want it.

HTH
missjones2007 Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)


Posted by MrsFazz2B

She is over reacting...not you
She seems like she wants all the attention...be careful..somepeople try to take the spotlight away from the bride and it seems like thats what shes doing already



that what FH said
PoppedInASnap Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)

yuparoo...sounds like it to me...she wants different flowers, she wants a differnet color dress..wants to shine like the bride
I say take back the different color and give her the same size bok
NickandTara426 Posted:

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She's jealous, you're not wrong at all!! It's your day!!!

missjones2007 Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)


Posted by Ednkim4eva

I think weddings are stressful for everyone involved....I don't think you were wrong, but I think you need to give your friend extra TLC. She seems to be vulnerable right now.



I did that ...I was with her the whole time
redvelvet Posted:

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you were not wrong. she seems to be too needy and a lil jealous. she is absolutlely over-reacting.

i might have asked her if she wanted to go with me before leaving. but she is so over the top!
lizzie217 Posted:

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It sounds to me like she is totally overreacting and making you upset for no reason. Dont let her get to you hun.
MEL0880 Posted:

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Oh we have the same date!!

I think she is feeling a little jelous... she is overreacting just a little.. maybe there was something else going on totally not related with you or the wedding that made her take it out on you. or maybe she felt bad b/c she had to go up in dress size, that would put anyone out of sorts...

so no you weren't wrong at all...
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

Re: MOH and I got into it!!!!! (i know its long but please read)


Posted by MrsFazz2B

She is over reacting...not you
She seems like she wants all the attention...be careful..somepeople try to take the spotlight away from the bride and it seems like thats what shes doing already



Ditto this is exactly what I was gonna say! Sometimes you just need to block those drama queens out and just go ahead with your planning.

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