LAST NIGHT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR PAYING FOR MY SHOWER? SHE THINKS SHE IS MY MOM AND DAD SAY THEY ARE AND ANOTER MOH THINKS THE BRIDAL PARTY THROWS IT
SOOOOOOO WHO THROWS THE SHOWER LADIES???????
Marly
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The Bridal Party does....
lilqtpie2181
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it depends most of the time the mother of the bride does and the bridal party helps plan
agraydc
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usually the bridal party does and the MOB/family contributes whatever they can/wants to
dajc23
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I've seen it done both ways
In my case my mom is paying for it and the BMs are helping put things together like the centerpieces, favors, games etc
eelharas4700
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my mom paid for most of it.....the restaraunt bill, my moh (sister) did all the favors and centerpeices....my sils didnt do too much-just games really. but my other bms did the invites, decorations and helped my mom out. so it depends. eveyone did something but it came most from my mom
Maria31
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My mom is paying for my shower and by MOH/BM are helping her with all of the details. I have seen situations where the MOH/BM pay for the whole thing, though. So it could go either way.
mls282
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In my case my mother is because she is not paying for my wedding, we are. If my mother was going to be paying for my wedding its too much to think she would foot the bill for the shower too... then the bridal party would share the cost of the shower. Even though my mother is paying the BP is helping out I am sure with planning, favors, etc.
ML110
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i think it depends... i've been in 3 weddings, and all 3 of them the bridal party split the cost with the MOB.. i know that was the case with mine, too. especially if parents are paying for or contributing to the wedding at all, its a lot to ask that they pay for the whole shower, too. to me, that was always just a 'built in' cost for being a bridesmaid.
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it's completely up to THEM....so dont stress about things you dont need too! I know my mom paid for the bulk of mine, and then each bridesmaid gave a certain amount...just tell your mom to communicate with them so they know whats going on.
lyss0908
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IMO it is usually the BP along with the MOB. That is how it has been in all of the weddings I was a part of
diva7531
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Whomever wants to, usually the moms and BP split the bill
MelissaH43
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My mom and fmil were nice enough to pay! They are the best! Actually the last four BP's I was in, all the mom's paid.
HTH
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trophywife
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Posted by Marly
The Bridal Party does....
I actually disagree - I think the Mother of the Bride should pay for the bridal shower
LBride
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my parents threw it for me... I would never ask my friends in their 20s to pay for my shower
babygirlb
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The bridal party if anyone outside the bridal party wants to contribute. I am sure it would be appreciated.
PegaLega
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Ive seen it done both ways-sometimes the BP does it, sometimes the MOB does it, sometimes both do it....it just depends on what your mom wants it to be and what the BP can afford etc.
Cpt2007
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Totally depends. My aunt threw mine, and didn't ask for BP help. I've been to others where the sisters and MOB threw it. All depends.
traditionally it is the MOH who throws it with the help of the Bridal Party but anything goes these days....my mom is paying for mine but the BP is helping to plan since they know more experience with them than mom does!
Saram
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my mom is paying for it..bridal party is just helping to plan stuff for it...
