MOH issues!
So I vented about this before but just a little history.
My MOH and I have been friends for over 12 yrs. Since JHS. She is a wonderful friend, however she is the type of girl that doesnt know how to act when she has a boyfriend. The type that dissapers off the face of the earth and the type you call at 11am and calls you back at 8pm, if she even calls back. She is now in a serious relationship with a nice guy for almost 2 yrs.
She has been wishy washi with the wedding stuff. I picked her to be MOH because I figured with so much crap there is to do for the wedding, this would give us a chance to 'bond' again. In the begining it was great, email back and forth, we talked alot, and not just about the wedding. I'd call just to see how she was doing, how her mom, her boyfriend, college, work, etc. She's also gone out of her way and bought me things like the ring pillow, some candels I needed and other things.
Since a few months back, she barely answers my calls, I text her nothing, I email her and she emails me a week later. I tried talking to her about it and she acted like I was imagining things. It is now the end of May, my wedding is in Auugust, she hasnt made time to talk to me about a bridal shower, she hasnt bother to get addresses of my guests, she hasnt even gone with me to look at dresses for the bridal party.
I dont know what to do with her! Advise?
My MOH and I have been friends for over 12 yrs. Since JHS. She is a wonderful friend, however she is the type of girl that doesnt know how to act when she has a boyfriend. The type that dissapers off the face of the earth and the type you call at 11am and calls you back at 8pm, if she even calls back. She is now in a serious relationship with a nice guy for almost 2 yrs.
She has been wishy washi with the wedding stuff. I picked her to be MOH because I figured with so much crap there is to do for the wedding, this would give us a chance to 'bond' again. In the begining it was great, email back and forth, we talked alot, and not just about the wedding. I'd call just to see how she was doing, how her mom, her boyfriend, college, work, etc. She's also gone out of her way and bought me things like the ring pillow, some candels I needed and other things.
Since a few months back, she barely answers my calls, I text her nothing, I email her and she emails me a week later. I tried talking to her about it and she acted like I was imagining things. It is now the end of May, my wedding is in Auugust, she hasnt made time to talk to me about a bridal shower, she hasnt bother to get addresses of my guests, she hasnt even gone with me to look at dresses for the bridal party.
I dont know what to do with her! Advise?
