So let me start off by saying i've known my MOH /best friend for 15 yrs. She hasn't done one thing with my bachelorette party my SIL is taking care of everything. My MOH has been dating this guy for like 6 months now and insists that he was not her b/f for the longest time.
SO we all finally decided on a date for the B party back in october in which she knew about. Today i get a text message from her asking if she can change the date to the party because it her NEW B/f:s Birthday and that she totally forgot! WHAT !!!!!!!!!???
we are staying over one night in the city Spa (optional ) dinner and out later on. She will not ccome out after dinner. She wants to be with him. She said she can't celebrate his birthday another night .... and she wants to spend it that night. She will not come to realize how wrong she is. Oh and by the way she flat out told me she doesn't want to spend the money it is costing just for one night in the city at a nice hotel. Now tell me What MOH does this???
megsher
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What a biotch! I'm sorry, but I would be very at my MOH.
jme78
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I'm sorry!
I know how much it ***** when your friendship of many years takes a backseat to a new relationship.
Also its not fair for her to complain about the cost - when you sign up to be a MOH, you know what you are in for!
I hope she gets her head straight!
little34
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YUCK!!! Why do these people even say yes to being in the wedding party if they can not step up and do darn thing.
laurfiness
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oh by the way ...she has a great job, lives at home has no car payment nothing ...no reason to complain!
MrsDtoBe09
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Thats crap! Sorry you have to deal with this.
Summertimegal424
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wow that totally stinks, and im sorry you have a best friend like that.
if you already set a date, then she should tell her loving and understanding b/f that he will have to take a rain check
coldasice217
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I can completely understand why you'd be upset with that. Yuck!
KerriJohnS
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Yea, It's a tad rude and inconsiderate. She accepted the position right? I mean when you accept it you know that it comes along with work and also money is involved. If this was going to be the issue she should have let you know early on. As for the guy... well... In once sense I understand it..but if she booked the date for your event first then that shuld take preference. And he should be able to understand and they can celebrate his bday another night. Perhaps the night before or after ur event?
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So her NEW b/f is more important then a BFF since 15 years ago??? I would be livid. Def. say some not so nice words to her...tell her that she'll have to cancel since it's already planned out with the rest of your BP...
VeggieBride
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ewww thats almost grounds for a demotion
Jennmolloy
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eeeewwww. That is so not nice of her. I can't believe she is behaving this way. I am so sorry. I would definitley point out to her that this is what MOH do. She should be honored that you asked her.
FutureMrsM
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That's messed up! I hate when friends start dating someone new and they let it consume their entire lives and forget all about their friends... I'm sorry you're dealing with this
