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MOH Rant

Brainy29 Posted:

MOH Rant

My MOH seems not to be too interested in planning my BS or BP. My mom is starting to make plans and is looking for my MOH to assist, but for some reason when I ask her (MOH) about calling my mom to talk over the plans she act like oh, I forgot, I'll call her and then never does. Should I just have my mom take the lead and do this on her own. Should I talk to one of my other BMs to ask her to take the lead on planning my BP. I don't want to offend her(my MOH), but it seems as if she's not interested in doing anything. It's really starting to bother me.
ChrissynRicky Posted:

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Posted by Brainy29

Should I just have my mom take the lead and do this on her own.





Yes, have mom coordinate w/MOH - these two events are GIVEN to you...the two events where you actually don't have to plan anything and just show up! No need for the drama!
tracy2246 Posted:

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Posted by ChristineAEV


Posted by Brainy29

Should I just have my mom take the lead and do this on her own.





Yes, have mom coordinate w/MOH - these two events are GIVEN to you...the two events where you actually don't have to plan anything and just show up! No need for the drama!



I agree-Mom will get it done and it also goves your other ladies a chance to get involved.
johnsae Posted:

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Yes...I would have your Mom take the lead. It's just ridiculous that your MOH is being lazy about this...I have been going through the same thing - you would think they would be excited and eager to plan!!!
BKtoLI Posted:

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I'm in the same boat...BUT my mother is sick and has no clue about these things...so I have to put faith in my MOH even though I've been trying to contact her for 2 weeks now, and nothing!!
Brainy29 Posted:

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Posted by johnsae

Yes...I would have your Mom take the lead. It's just ridiculous that your MOH is being lazy about this...I have been going through the same thing - you would think they would be excited and eager to plan!!!



Exactly, I feel like, if you didn't really want to do it, why did you say yes to being my MOH. It really makes me feel like I should have asked someone else.
waterspout4 Posted:

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Have mom take the lead. But get other BM involved too.

If everything we're up to my mom, I'd have no alcohol and we'd all end up at an aerobics class.
autumn Posted:

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Posted by ChristineAEV


Posted by Brainy29

Should I just have my mom take the lead and do this on her own.





Yes, have mom coordinate w/MOH - these two events are GIVEN to you...the two events where you actually don't have to plan anything and just show up! No need for the drama![/QUOTE

Definitely have you mom coordinate with MOH. Your mom should set your MOH straight and tell her because of her lack of interest in your wedding, that she is no longer in charge of your BS. See what happens after the shower to continue letting her help with the BP. Good luck sweetie, keep your chin up
Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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Have mom take the lead and get the other BM's involved too. That's what I'm having to do because my MOH (my sister) is not into the wedding at all.

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