MOH Vent

I think I want to cancel my MOH.
again we had a fight over me being 'hysterical about the wedding' <---her term to describe me
now I hope she really won't be able to fly in for the wedding just to avoid telling her she's not gonna stand at the huppah. I honestly dont want her up there with us now.

I feel as if somebody stepped on me right now. I am mad and want to cry all at the same time. I mean, when she got married and now with the other stuff she is going thru I always listen and try to give advice no matter how annoyed or boring the sbj. why do I get to be called 'hysterical' 'obsessed' 'crazy'????? why?????????

I honestly refrain from talking about the wedding with others other than u, mom, FH. so I am obsessed??? cause I worry and am excited that I finally have somebody that I love and loves me and I get to marry my 1st and only love???

this totally ruined the good mood I had about booking video today

People su ck. It's really hurtful when they can't stand to see you happy.
I would downgrade her to a BM or not have her in it at all if that is how she feels about your wedding and your life.

I'm sorry your MOH is giving you a hard time. Some people just always need to bring people down

just kick her out - i am so sick of people like this - there is no need you need people like this on your wedding day or during the process

tell her to take her sour puss and get lost

so sorry.

i dont talk about the wedding to anyone unless they ask.
that includes my moh and bms.


thank god for liw!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Rosalind_75

so sorry.

i dont talk about the wedding to anyone unless they ask.
that includes my moh and bms.


thank god for liw!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sorry Regy... for a MOH to say that is probably more hurtful than anyone else saying it....

ITA w/u ros... i never talk about the wedding unless people ask...

So what if your obsessed, and crazy over your wedding..let me fill you in girl WE ALL ARE!

If you truly feel like you don't want her to be a part of your wedding then tell her to take a hike! You don't want to look back and regret having her as your MOH (my mom still talks bad about her MOH) This is YOUR day, and you should do only things that make YOU happy..feel my drift?

I hope it all works out for you

thanks guys
thank God for LIW indeed

sux when ur own friend treats u this way after all I did for her wedding or any other thing in her life
she was saying these things since me and FH got engaged and I was feeling overwhelmed
but I'm not gonna do anything right now, when mad. have to see what to do in the future about this whole situtaion

this really stinks. im sorry have you ever told her how you feel? is it possible that she is just totally clueless and selfish and really needs a reality check??

sorry ur MOH is being so annoying!! i think what makes it so bad is that its ur MOH...this is the one person (other than FH) who should be just as excited as you are to plan your wedding!!

a good friend would lend an ear when its needed and know when to help with advice.

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Posted by little j

this really stinks. im sorry have you ever told her how you feel? is it possible that she is just totally clueless and selfish and really needs a reality check??

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we did talk about it. this isnt a 1st time this happened. I actually stopped talking to her about a month ago after a similar situation and then we talked and kinda straightened out some of it.
but now the same exact thing.
W T Eff???

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Posted by 01ELLIE

sorry ur MOH is being so annoying!! i think what makes it so bad is that its ur MOH...this is the one person (other than FH) who should be just as excited as you are to plan your wedding!!

a good friend would lend an ear when its needed and know when to help with advice.

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Ellie exactly my feelings and that's why I am so upset.
thats how I was about her wedding, now its my turn. and this is what I get???