MOH Vent..sorry so long!
Here is my situation.
I have known my MOH since we were 5. We have been pretty tight and like all friendships it got strained when we went off to college...we always kept in touch and visited and all that... but we just kind of turned into different people.
I asked her to be my MOH because we have known one another for so long and we got really close again just recently because her BF had broken up with her and she moved back home and we spent a lot more time together. Now she is back with her BF, which I am happy about because she loves him, and moved back with him to Jersey.....I just found out she moved through an email she just sent me...
I just feel like now that she is back with her BF it is going to go back to her living her life and me living mine. I have another friend that is a BM and is so helpful and we are always doing things together and I just feel like she should be my MOH....she is always calling me to ask if I need help and my real MOH never asks about anything. I am just so frustrated... I mean when I just had my e-party she never asked how she could help or any of that... I just hate feeling like she isn't going to be helpful or supportive like my other friend is being and I feel like I have no other choice.
And for a side note...my mom has been battling cancer for the last 2 years (she is fine but she gets chemo every 2 weeks and she is doing really great...knock on wood) and my MOH NEVER asks about her when everyone else in my life always asks about my mom... and I have known her for 22 years! Ugh
I have known my MOH since we were 5. We have been pretty tight and like all friendships it got strained when we went off to college...we always kept in touch and visited and all that... but we just kind of turned into different people.
I asked her to be my MOH because we have known one another for so long and we got really close again just recently because her BF had broken up with her and she moved back home and we spent a lot more time together. Now she is back with her BF, which I am happy about because she loves him, and moved back with him to Jersey.....I just found out she moved through an email she just sent me...
I just feel like now that she is back with her BF it is going to go back to her living her life and me living mine. I have another friend that is a BM and is so helpful and we are always doing things together and I just feel like she should be my MOH....she is always calling me to ask if I need help and my real MOH never asks about anything. I am just so frustrated... I mean when I just had my e-party she never asked how she could help or any of that... I just hate feeling like she isn't going to be helpful or supportive like my other friend is being and I feel like I have no other choice.
And for a side note...my mom has been battling cancer for the last 2 years (she is fine but she gets chemo every 2 weeks and she is doing really great...knock on wood) and my MOH NEVER asks about her when everyone else in my life always asks about my mom... and I have known her for 22 years! Ugh
