~*~*~*Monday 3.22.10 QOTD*~*~*~

Good 'morning' girls!

Thank you to Becki for making me this week's BOTW! It was a nice thing to come home to after having a not-so-great day...

I get really bad migraines and have tried EVERYTHING for them. Every drug, every diet and every alternative medicine. The only thing that seems to work for me is botox injections in the back of my neck (which is an insurance battle trying to get coverage).

Once you get the injections it takes 2 weeks to kick in. The last injection I had was about a week and a half ago, and I was planning on getting another before the wedding in June to avoid wedding and honeymoon migraines.

When I was there my eye was twitching (it had been for 2 weeks straight -ummm hello stress!!!). So he put a little in my eyebrow to stop the twitching.

WELL... I woke up this morning to a DROOPY LEFT EYELID!!! Seriously not okay. Botox lasts 2-4 months so I'm really freaking out that I'm going to have a droopy left eyelid for the wedding!!! I am going to call the doctor first thing in the morning to see if there is anything he can do...

Well this is a HUGE lead in to today's question of the day.

What are your top 5 wedding day fears?

Mine are:

1. That I get a migraine/headache
2. Now that my droopy eyelid doesn't go away
3. That my mom drives me crazy/makes me cry/gets into a fight with me
4. That a vendor doesn't show up
5. That it rains

1. rain
2. vendor not appearing or late (makeup lady calls sick,etc)
3. FH getting cold feet (actually the worst nightmare)
4. not fitting into my dress
5. messing up my vows or tripping down the aisle...

the more I think of the above, the more nervous I get!

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Posted by LauraluvsSean

1. rain
2. vendor not appearing or late (makeup lady calls sick,etc)
3. FH getting cold feet (actually the worst nightmare)
4. not fitting into my dress
5. messing up my vows or tripping down the aisle...

the more I think of the above, the more nervous I get!

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ahhh good call on tripping down the aisle!! our processional involves a descent down a staircase... super nervous about that!

1.rain
2.having a zit
3.getting sick, like the flu
4.FALLING!
5.fitting into my dress

def all of the above including...Getting my period the day of or feeling super bloated that day...

1. Getting sick
2. Vendor not showing up
3. Something happening to me/FH/family/dress
4. Someone showing up in an inappropriate outfit
5. Hating my hair/makeup

I hope you a feeling better.

-vendor showing up late

-something going wrong with my BM/Jr. BM/FG dress or even my dress. There was already a mix up with color already for my JR BM's dress

-someone in white

-one of my BM's start acting like its all about them and then I would have to knock them out.

-being sick the day of the wedding

1) getting sick day of
2) vendor not showing up
3)FMIL not making the wedding
4) not fitting in my dress


I cant think of a 5th one

In no particular order...

1. Passing out...I have vasovagal issues, which basically means if I'm well hydrated and fed I'm totally fine, but if I'm not a nerve in my heart overreacts and my blood pressure drops real low, my heart starts beating like crazy and then I pass out. Wouldn't be an issue at all, but on days when I'm nervous I tend to not want anything to eat
2. Definitely migraine or other sickness issues...my body ***** in general
3. FSIL causing a scene or drawing huge amounts of attention to herself...mostly because I think that then my grandma would tell her off and maybe push her into the lagoon
4. Rain...when my grandpa died I got it stuck in my head that he was going to 'pull some strings' and give us beautiful weather that day...I know its irrational but I truly believe it. So if that doesn't happen I'll probably be pretty upset.
5. Something going wrong that is not fixable...wrong flowers, vendor not showing up, photographer's camera breaking (I'm paranoid haha)

1. That I get sick
2. That FH gets sick
3. That I fall walking down the aisle
4. That a vendor doesn't show up
5. A little rain won't bother me, but torrential downpours will

1. rain
2. vendors dont show up
3. i get sick and can't enjoy the day
4. i fall on my face coming down the aisle
5. my preggers cousin/bm has the baby early and can't be there

- rain
- aunt flo stops by for a visit
- big juicy zit on my face
- vendor doesn't show up
- no one is having fun - booooo

1. FH or I getting a migraine
2. tripping down the aisle
3. my nieces crying instead of walked down the aisle
4. guests not having a good time

1. A vendor doesn't show up.
2. Aunt Flo doesn't cooperate even though I've done everything with my bc to 'fix it'
3. FBIL says something stupid and innapropriate during the BM speech.
4. I trip down the aisle or mess up during our vows.
5. FH or I are sick when we wake up.

#1 - FH somehow not showing up. Biggest and worst fear is that somehow he gets arrested the night before.

Everything's labeled #2 cause after that the rest are equally important.

#2 - FH or I being sick
#2 - Vendor not showing up
#2 - Tripping down the aisle
#2 - Something happening to the reception hall (i.e. flood, tree falling on it, etc.)

I pray everything works out for you and CONGRATULATIONS on becoming BOTW


1. That the weather sux
2. That my mom or BMs or ANYONE drives me crazy
3. That someone arrives while I'm walking down the aisle and ruins it
4. That the weather sux, lol....
5. That I have people that show up that didn't RSVP (if you knew my family, you'd know how legitimate this concern is)

1- pink eye!!!!
2- stomach virus
3- FH decides not to show up
4- the band comes with one hour left in the reception and don't know how to play any of their songs (I had this nightmare)
5- fist fight at the church/reception between feuding relatives...

1. That I get my period. I just don't want to deal with that, plus I have a cyst so it makes my cramps THAT much worse.
2. Rain. Again, not the worst thing in the world, but what a pain.
3. That this crazy b!tch who lives across the street from my RH and hates me will show up uninvited and cause a scene like she has so many, many times before.
4. Getting too drunk to function.
5. The wedding before ours running long and delaying our ceremony.

1. Getting my bad stomach pains the day of
2. Getting stomach virus the day before or the day of
3. That my mom will flip out if something goes wrong

umm... that's it.