I felt like that for a long time and then I finally decided not to worry about money for the wedding. We just cut back on spending on non-essentials such as dining out and shopping.
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You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
Posted by coffeeisgreen
You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
Posted by coffeeisgreen
You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
ugh it's so bad!
Amen! I think now that Christmas is over we can try to recoup funds...until we move in together lol
Thank God I am not the only one who feels this way. I have been keeping things really tight budget wise but it just seems that every time I get ahead something else comes along
Posted by coffeeisgreen
You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
Haha your not alone every where I look I see $$$$ flying by and when I think I'm ahead nope something comes up! Like you last weekend my car service cost $400 and I have a brand new car! It's crazy!
I worry a lot about this too. I have been saving, but not nearly enough as I would like. I hope we have enough when all the payments start being due. Luckily my parents are helping out a little bit, but I am so stressed about it
Posted by coffeeisgreen
You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
Posted by Jott1015
Posted by coffeeisgreen
You're not the only one! Any dollar we spend that's not wedding related, I feel guilty. Not so much on necessities like food of course. But other stuff, it's like, that could have gone in wedding savings!
This!! I am like the money police - I check our account every day and if I see my FH spends $50 at Home Depot I am all over it haha...Its a lot of pressure especially those of us that are paying for the whole thing!! Why do weddings have to be so damn expensive!! lol
The money stress is killing me! Not to mention the lingering thought in the back of my head that after exhausting a huge chunk of our savings, extreme penny pinching and working all this overtime- guests will have complaints anyway. If I hear any complaints at my wedding, I may very well throw a tantrum. :-/ I broke down in tears today in David's Bridal after showing my mom what I thought would be 'the dress' and she said it looked too cheap.
OMG YES!!! We took out a loan to renovate his moms house so we will have our own apartment. FH decided to take out extra for the wedding and furniture. However, we did not calculate what everything would cost before giving the bank the number we needed and now we are not going to be covered so yes every DOLLAR either of us spend I freak!
I say a prayer everyday that nothing major happens that would throw us off track. It's a little scary putting soo much money on 1 day. Maybe we should get wedding insurance. I'd love nothing more than to go on a shopping spree!
I say a prayer everyday that nothing major happens that would throw us off track. It's a little scary putting soo much money on 1 day. Maybe we should get wedding insurance. I'd love nothing more than to go on a shopping spree!
Posted by Jack84
I say a prayer everyday that nothing major happens that would throw us off track. It's a little scary putting soo much money on 1 day. Maybe we should get wedding insurance. I'd love nothing more than to go on a shopping spree!
