More Cheating ?s

matron Posted: Nov 11, 2004 01:06 AM

More Cheating ?s

Have you ever been tempted to cheat on your SO? If so, how did you handle it?

RedHead Posted: Nov 11, 2004 08:01 AM

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my first long term BF yes. I was 18 and just went away to college.
I came home and told him i needed space...he cried so i felt guilty and took it back. When i went back to school i did end up smoochin someone else and eventually told my BF.
We dated another 3 more years! With no cheating

wc0143 Posted: Nov 11, 2004 08:59 AM

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Never with anyone I was involved with ... I'm bad at lying or being sneaky so even if I ever had feelings for someone else or was tempted, I would never have been able to pull it off.

btrflygrl Posted: Nov 11, 2004 09:13 AM

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I did...when I was 15, moved away from one BF and started dating another guy in the new town....

then at 21 when I was with my crappy ex...he had a hot friend (total bad boy thing goin' on) but I never did anything

ellengrisal Posted: Nov 11, 2004 10:16 AM

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I've never cheated on a SO. I was cheated on (in high school) so I know what it feels like and can never imagine hurting someone else, especially my SO! I flirt with other guys, but I would NEVER cheat on my SO. He's the best catch ever. hehehe

ambersmom Posted: Nov 11, 2004 10:34 AM

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I did it alot when I was younger. I had major insecurities issues and I felt like if someone was interested, why limit your options? Of course all the dirtbags I was involved with, they were all messing around too. I don't consider any of the relationships I had between 14-21 serious because of the nature of them.

jenny2penny Posted: Nov 11, 2004 11:05 AM

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Imagin916 Posted: Nov 12, 2004 04:15 PM

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I was tempted at the end of my relationship with my ex-FH, but I didnt do it, I couldnt do that to him. I did cheat on my BF in high school when I was like 15!

JMO: But I dont think cheating on your bf when you were 15 or 16 holds the same amount of weight as you doing it at 18 or when you are in a long term relationship as an adult.

nferrandi Posted: Nov 12, 2004 05:47 PM

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I cheated, well I did some smoochin, behind boyfriends backs in high school. It was just silly stuff and to be honest, it was so insignificant in the grand scheme of my life, that I don't even bother regretting it.

Jax430 Posted: Nov 12, 2004 06:56 PM

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When I was a sophomore in college, I was dating someone who I knew I would end things with in the near future. I went on a cruise with my parents and met this guy in a bar...we had a wonderful time hanging out together, and spent the last night of the cruise, x-mas eve, up all night talking. I used SO much self-restraint not to kiss him, and after I broke up with my boyfriend, a few days later, I totally regretted it.

February05 Posted: Nov 12, 2004 07:41 PM

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nope... whether the guy was shady or not, didnt matter. i wouldn't be happy with Myself if i did that. but then again... before FH, i avoided serious relationships... they were always pretty 'open' relationships and not serious in the commitment sense