More drama from my psycho ex-BM!!! (vent!)

More drama from my psycho ex-BM!!! (vent!)

I don't know if anyone remembers that I recently kicked out one of my BM's because of:

1 Her bitchy attitude whenever I brought up anything wedding related
2 Her never returning my calls since I got engaged
3 RUDE comments made about the choices I made for the wedding

...and the list goes on and on!

Well, the drama continues. My FSIL called me to say that some girl called her (and FSIL had no idea who this psycho chick was when she answered her cell) and was going on and on about how she moved away and it's such an inconvenience for her to come up on such short notice for my shower!!!! What the F@$%? Did she think FSIL wouldn't tell me???? Not only that, my sister and FSIL's names were on the invites to RSVP to but she called the girl she doesn't know instead of calling my sister! I officially hate this chick! I'm seriously considering not being the bigger person anymore and not sending her an invite to the wedding! AAAGGGHHHHH!

Re: More drama from my psycho ex-BM!!! (vent!)

are u kidding? she called YOUR fsil to talk s*** about u? wow she is psycho. Dont invite her...

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It really doesn't sound like you have much love for this girl. IMHO I wouldn't invite her if all she is doing is driving you insane!!

Good luck sweetie!!

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I am not sure what there is to 'consider'. I would not invite her at all. I don't know why you would. She is a 'liability' for your wedding day. You don't need negative people.

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Good God..get rid of her once and for all!
I would not invite her if I were you. Your friends are supossed to be supporting you and making you feel good during this time in your life and she's definitely not doing that!

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DROP HER!!!!

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your so better off....people are sooo shady!

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I am officially giving you permission to NOT feel bad and to totally NOT invite her to your wedding!! Ew.. I hate people sometimes!!! Where is the b*tch slap icon when you really need it!!!!

for you

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Why invite her if all she does is cause you angst? On your wedding day you should be surrounded by people that will share in your happiness and contribute to your joy with thier presence.

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don't let her ruin these happy times,..you are better off!!!!

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You definitely shouldn't invite her because she doesn't sound like a friend and you don't need to have any grief or aggravation on your special day. Try not to feel bad because its her, not you!

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I don't think you need any more signs from her saying that she wants to ruin your day. Don't invite her.

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Re: More drama from my psycho ex-BM!!! (vent!)

If you don't want to be friends with her after your wedding, then don't invite her. Cut your losses now and save yourself from the future heartache that she'll give you.... but if she's such a psycho, do you think she'll show up at your wedding just to piss you off?

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I'd enjoy sending her a non-invitation. Letting her know what she's not invited to.

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If you dropped her from being a BM you should've dropped her from the guestlist completely.

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you really find out a lot about people while planning a wedding!

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Don't send her an invite, and drop her as a friend. You don't need someone in your life like that.

Re: More drama from my psycho ex-BM!!! (vent!)