More FMIL DRAMA!!! UGH!

What a day! I see that on the boards there are at least 2 other posts of FMIL drama, well here is one more


Ok, so FH, FMIL, and I were supposed to get up and go visit some older family upstate today... So I got up at 7am and it turns out That Uncle Win does not feel well, so instead of traveling we all stayed home, well....We (FH and I) decided to fix the Family computer and Work on some more paper work for the Co op that we are trying to buy...to make a long story short, we need certain documents from FMIL because FH co signed a mortgage for her and so she is now involved in our business. Today she decided to harp on how we should got through some other mortgage company for our mortgage, and we are stupid if we don't because we could possibly save some money...blah blah blah!!!

I asked FH to PLEASE just respond to this like this...We have the situation under control and we have done all the research we needed to do...

Well FH has a huge blow up fight with his mom and she started crying and yelling that we are completely ungrateful and sooooo hurtful!!!!!!! Why is it so hard just to stay out of our business??? and WHY is it so hard for men just to ignore prodding from their mothers??? So she left the house hours ago, stating that she will never forgive us for this and she is not talking to FH again (one could hope ) I don't get it??? My parents are so supportive and helpful, they give good advice and keep their nose out of our business!!!

Sorry for the long post. Just needed to vent

geez...FMIL drama is crazy tonite, huh? that sux! i have to say, the best thing about my FMIL is that she is NEVER in our business, and doesn't bother anyone. (but she has her issues too--namely she can never get her finances straight and we have had to bail her out sometimes)

i don't get how moms are with their sons, sometimes. i hope none of us turn like that when we have sons that are getting married! cause i'm sure when your FMIL was younger, she was probably biitching about her MIL too not understanding her!

i hope you can all get thru it, and there's no hard feelings!

i dont get it either that these crazy woman cant stay out of our business!!!! i know how u feel. i just posted a board about my crazy nutty mother in law. its like they cant let go. they need to get over it!!! you not in this along BELIEVE ME!!!

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Posted by MJDoc12

geez...FMIL drama is crazy tonite, huh? that sux! i have to say, the best thing about my FMIL is that she is NEVER in our business, and doesn't bother anyone. (but she has her issues too--namely she can never get her finances straight and we have had to bail her out sometimes)

i don't get how moms are with their sons, sometimes. i hope none of us turn like that when we have sons that are getting married! cause i'm sure when your FMIL was younger, she was probably biitching about her MIL too not understanding her!

i hope you can all get thru it, and there's no hard feelings!

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Thanks! I really hope that this will blow over sooner rather than later. I have all this tension!

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Posted by babygirl71777

i dont get it either that these crazy woman cant stay out of our business!!!! i know how u feel. i just posted a board about my crazy nutty mother in law. its like they cant let go. they need to get over it!!! you not in this along BELIEVE ME!!!

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Ouch! I read!!! What is wrong with these women!!! Let go!!! This is life! we all grow up and move out and get married, it is a part of healthy living!

I'm Praying for all of us!

*****update*****

OK, She gets home and still refuses to talk, Should I be happy about this??? LOL!!! You just can't win! She want to make us feel so guilty! She does not want us to move out of here, and have our own lives!!! This is driving me nuts! So nuts, that I want to move back in with my parents just so I don't have to deal with this crap!



help!

FH called me to tell me that FMIL still is really P - O'd.....

I'm Wondering if i should maybe move back in with my parents until we can move in to our coop...

FH does not want me to do it...But living in such tension give me alot of anxiety!!!!

I dunno what to do

Mimi it's like looking in a mirror! I have the same problem with FMIL. She is always up in our business. Huge things too- like the house. Get used to it hun. Some things just don't change overnite.