Remeber the girl i know whos husband cheated and had sex with a girl 2 times?
she told me she forgave him because ' it happens to everyone, she isnt the first to go through something like this'
i just cant help people...i just said mmmmmmmmm ok, she took the cake with making up that response to make herself feel better as to why her husband cheated.....
MaggieLuvsJoe
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Some girls would rather stay in an unhealthy relationship than start a new life bc they're afraid of being alone...that makes me sad.
Sweets14
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That's really sad. I couldn't live like that.
angels914
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Sorry , but there is NO WAY to forgive that !
KimiDanny1010
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i know i girl who keeps getting back with her boyfriend after doing the same things to her and that is always the reason she gives when she gets back with him... they are both my friends but it makes me crazy that she keeps taking him back !!!!!!
iYexie
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i feel sad for her she's obviously making a big mistake!
Celeste617
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that is so sad i feel for her - somehow i believe that won't be the last time that he'll do that since he's getting away with it this time good luck to them - maybe things will work out for the better (trying to be an optimist here...)
beram63
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it's scary how many people cheat--people you'd never suspect for a second. sometimes i think monogomists are a dying breed.
browneyes
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i totay here that! I have a friend that is w/this man well i should say boy. He refuesses to work she pays for there apartment n bills while he sits home watching tv n playing video games and shes cought him more then once talking online to other girls n My other friend told her that see seen him out w.some chick but it will never be enough for her to leave him... I just dont get it! Why do some girls feel that they cant do better!? Never Settle girls!!!!!
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Some people deal with things differently. I know a couple where the wife cheated, he forgave her, and are seriously one of the greatest couples I know. They are completely in tune with each other. Some people have the capacity to really forgive and forget.
I don't think its fair to judge them...everyone's relationship is totally different.
IDK what I would do if this happened to me.
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Its sometimes so hard to tell a friend that there are better roads to go down...sorry to hear this =(
But it is true, some women are very forgiving and understand that their bf husband whatever needs to see other women.
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Posted by MaggieLuvsJoe
Some girls would rather stay in an unhealthy relationship than start a new life bc they're afraid of being alone...that makes me sad.
It's sickening how many girls think like this!!
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Well, he got away with it 2 times, when is he going to do it again? Poor girl. I feel very sorry for her. Maybe one day she will gain the strength to stand up for herself. And ur def right she def made up that excuse to make herself feel better.
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Some girls just dont have the confidence to go out & start over. The y would rather be in an unhealthy relationship then starting over. Its crazy but eventually & hopefully not to late for her she will have enough of it & move on. Because this guy will not stop cheating if he has done it premeditated 2x before. So sad
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i think it depends on the situation...i think i could forgive fh if we talked and i learned why..but i def couldn't forget. And i'd take some time apart until we knew if we really wanted to make the relationship work and if it would never happen again.
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yikes... i missed the original story but that is sad.
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Posted by meli722
Remeber the girl i know whos husband cheated and had sex with a girl 2 times?
she told me she forgave him because ' it happens to everyone, she isnt the first to go through something like this'
i just cant help people...i just said mmmmmmmmm ok, she took the cake with making up that response to make herself feel better as to why her husband cheated.....
im not surprised, this is why in a post recently about whether or not you would tell a person if you knew they were cheated on, i answered probably not. Ive been in so many situations like this and MANY times the person stays with them regardless. Ive had people even get mad at me, yeah its my fault that i happened to see your bf with another girl not that he cheated, blame me.
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Yea some girls just dont get it, most of the time if he does it once, he'll do it again....in this guys case he did it 2 times, was hanging out with the girl for well over a month, and she still forgave him! so it wasnt like he slipped and had a one night stand (not saying that that is OK), but he had a full relationship with this girl, was going to her families house to hang out with her, going places with her!! and he had his wife and kid at home
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Posted by lilpiggy742
i think it depends on the situation...i think i could forgive fh if we talked and i learned why..but i def couldn't forget. And i'd take some time apart until we knew if we really wanted to make the relationship work and if it would never happen again.
see MAYBE i can forgive, but i cant FORGET. so i would break up with FH anyway because we would be miserable together, i would thikn hes always out there doing it again
