More nonsense

AHHHH! HAd to get that out before I start. So when FH and got engaged a while ago I asked a few girls tobe BM. One of the them was my cousin, she said NO, because she felt she was too old ,she's 31. Fine, I had no hard feelings because I was trying to keep the wedding party small. Well few months pass by and we're speaking when I tell her that her sister who is a year younger than her and 3 of my friends who are all older than her are going to be BMs. She then tell me that if she knew everyone else was going to be OLD that she would have come out also. Told her sorry but no backsies and it would stay that she would be a guest. Well fast forward a few months and we're having another casual converstation when she asks me when should she go for her fitting for her BM dress.
I couldn't handle it I told her she could go for her dress whenever she liked since she wasn't going to be wearing the same dress as the BP it didn't make a difference to me when she went for her dress. Is it me or are people jsut straight up loony.

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Posted by Bklyn08Bride

AHHHH! HAd to get that out before I start. So when FH and got engaged a while ago I asked a few girls tobe BM. One of the them was my cousin, she said NO, because she felt she was too old ,she's 31. Fine, I had no hard feelings because I was trying to keep the wedding party small. Well few months pass by and we're speaking when I tell her that her sister who is a year younger than her and 3 of my friends who are all older than her are going to be BMs. She then tell me that if she knew everyone else was going to be OLD that she would have come out also. Told her sorry but no backsies and it would stay that she would be a guest. Well fast forward a few months and we're having another casual converstation when she asks me when should she go for her fitting for her BM dress.
I couldn't handle it I told her she could go for her dress whenever she liked since she wasn't going to be wearing the same dress as the BP it didn't make a difference to me when she went for her dress. Is it me or are people jsut straight up loony.

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sorry!!!!!

she just doesnt get it, that she had her chance and blew it

Wow!!! It always amazes me that people seem to have different conversations inside of their heads then what really happened
It really shouldn't have mattered to her how old she was.I'm 31 and half of my BM's are that age or older and none of them seem to feel too old to be standing up for me.
Good for you for standing your ground! Hope things all work out

I really don't want to be a bridezilla
But thankfully evryone knows how I am when I'm not wedding planning so with everything going on they are on extra alert of coming to me with some hot Bull@*&t

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Posted by chrissybean77

Wow!!! It always amazes me that people seem to have different conversations inside of their heads then what really happened
It really shouldn't have mattered to her how old she was.I'm 31 and half of my BM's are that age or older and none of them seem to feel too old to be standing up for me.
Good for you for standing your ground! Hope things all work out

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Sometimes people hear only what they want to

sometimes people only hear what they want to her and not whats coming out of your mouth

as you said, she is strait up looney! who knows what goes on in people's brains!
i think you handled it well telling her she can get whatever dress she wants but its not the same as the BP