more STD drama
I have to say I was so excited about getting my std's in the mail, I ran to my computer and started printing out labels. I've been on FH to get addresses we are missing so that we can mail these out - our wedding is only 6 months away... get on it please.
Anyway, so I just started with what I had, which was significant - most of it. I accidentally spelled his uncle's name wrong (so that one isn't getting reprinted until the next batch) and he went a little nuts about how we don't even have all the addresses yet and that he promised his mother we'd show her the guest list to get her input.
So I told him, these are just STD's not invitations. I only ordered 60 STD's. I told him I'm not even getting my own parent's input and they are actually giving us some money for the wedding. Am I wrong? I have like no time in my life right now with 2 jobs (one that I'm miserable at) and planning a wedding (if I waited for him we'd have a date with no vendors or guests b/c his wheels turn so slow - granted I live in overdrive so someone has to calm me down) and I don't feel I have to answer to his mother. I have not heard of any financial contribution on his families part so if I'm not asking my parent's for the final guest list yet, then I think he needs to shut up![]()
I asked his mother for a friend of her's address. I only asked my p's for a few addresses for this. This is the A list and out of towners that are getting these. No co-workers or in-law's in-laws (yes you heard that right).
I told my parent's they need to get the addresses together.
Is it wrong to start sending out the STD's that are finished, and send the rest early next week?
Anyway, so I just started with what I had, which was significant - most of it. I accidentally spelled his uncle's name wrong (so that one isn't getting reprinted until the next batch) and he went a little nuts about how we don't even have all the addresses yet and that he promised his mother we'd show her the guest list to get her input.
So I told him, these are just STD's not invitations. I only ordered 60 STD's. I told him I'm not even getting my own parent's input and they are actually giving us some money for the wedding. Am I wrong? I have like no time in my life right now with 2 jobs (one that I'm miserable at) and planning a wedding (if I waited for him we'd have a date with no vendors or guests b/c his wheels turn so slow - granted I live in overdrive so someone has to calm me down) and I don't feel I have to answer to his mother. I have not heard of any financial contribution on his families part so if I'm not asking my parent's for the final guest list yet, then I think he needs to shut up
I told my parent's they need to get the addresses together.
Is it wrong to start sending out the STD's that are finished, and send the rest early next week?
