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OK, SO MY TO BE MOM IN LAW, WANTED TO STAY AOUR HOUSE BEFORE THE WEDDING, I'M LIKE NO, B/C I AM STAYING HERE WITH MY DAUGHTER AND MY FIANCES, WAS IT BAD THAT I TOLD HER THAT I JUST WANTED IT TO BE THE 3 OF US, SO THERE IS NOT MASS CONFUSION IN THE MORNING??? I GOT A GREAT PRICE FOR THE GARDEN HILTON AND ALSO TOLD HER THAT??? HOW SHOULD I HANDLE THIS??
I think that most parents want to be with their children the night before they get married. My FH is going to stay with his mom and dad (I think) and I am going to be staying at the hotel that my parents are staying at (they are coming from out of town). I dont think that I would have it any other way.
Is there anyone else she could stay with before the wedding? Besides the hotel
no, but the thing is, is that i am going to have myself, 2 kids to get ready and i have a dog and she wants to bring her dog too!! i just want to relax in my own house and not be stressed out before my wedding, my FH is staying at the hotel to get ready, so she should stay w/ him, NO???
If FH is staying at the hotel then so should his mother. I thought you orginally said that he was staying at your house. In that case....yes, I think she should stay where her son is staying.
Posted by mishjohn
no, but the thing is, is that i am going to have myself, 2 kids to get ready and i have a dog and she wants to bring her dog too!! i just want to relax in my own house and not be stressed out before my wedding, my FH is staying at the hotel to get ready, so she should stay w/ him, NO???
Have you talked to your FH about this? What does he say? Want?
Posted by FutureMrs.T
If FH is staying at the hotel then so should his mother. I thought you orginally said that he was staying at your house. In that case....yes, I think she should stay where her son is staying.
My mom preferred to stay at a hotel, and FH's parents are local. So, I might share my mom's room with her at the hotel, or just meet up with everyone early that morning. Hasn't been worked out yet. We only have a one bedroom co-op, so it wouldn't be ideal for anyone to stay over the night before our wedding. If I had a house I would have asked my mom to stay. Though I would't want FH's mom to stay over because she would bring the drama lama! So it depends on your situation! Whatever would keep YOUR stress level down!
THANKS GIRLS!!! you know what it is, i have a 5 and 3 year old to take care of too, i want it just to be the 3 of us!! my fh is staying at the hotel, all i am asking is that one night!! then she can stay at our house, and also it's not like we have 5 bedrooms, we only have 3 and they are all taken, by me and the girls, so her and her husband (my fh stepdad) would be staying all over the house in pull out beds andi have to wak up early, get the girls ready and have their hair, my hair and makeup done, if she wants to come over in the morning to help me AFTER she gets ready at the hotel, i have no problem with that!! my fh is i think ok with this, but he says, 'it's whatever i want for that night', i mean he's not even staying in his own house!! and to bring all my stuff and my girls things to my parents house is too much, we live here!! and i have to take care of my english bulldog too!!
see i wouldn't want to put my daughter out like that! and it's not like she's my mom, my fh and her arent even that close! and i don't even think my family would ask to stay w/ us if they were out of state!! they know what a big inconveniance that would be the night before the wedding, especially that there are kids here too!!
Posted by mishjohn
no, but the thing is, is that i am going to have myself, 2 kids to get ready and i have a dog and she wants to bring her dog too!! i just want to relax in my own house and not be stressed out before my wedding, my FH is staying at the hotel to get ready, so she should stay w/ him, NO???
Posted by MrsV2be
i understand your point.. but think of it this way.. how would you feel if one day your child's soon to husband turned around asked you and your DH to spend the night at a hotel b/c it would be easier for all.. jmo..
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I think it's perfectly fine that you asked her to stay at a hotel. My FIL's are staying at a hotel the night before the wedding, they are coming in from Pittsburgh and will be in town for a few days. Our house will be way too hectic the morning of, no OOT guests are allowed to stay at the house.
thank you!!!
