Basically one of my mother's co-workers who is now her friend is dating my FMIL's friend's HUSBAND!!!!!!!!
How bad is that..what am I suppose to do..I have to invite her friend & Guest...
And FMIL wants to invite her friend and husband... Everyone thinks the wife knows about her husband cheating on her..and knows my moms friend...ugh ...torn
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FMIL's friends hubby is cheating with my mom's friend.....and I need to invite everyone.
KarinAmanda
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whoa - no way, no invitations to cheaters ...
Fall Bride 2008
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eww dirty!
mrspalomino148
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ew to cheaters!! im soo sorry your in that predictiment!
Mizzdimple
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eww dirty!
I just dont know what to do...uuuuuuuuuuuuuu Hes Nasty i dont like him...
korndoggie
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That original post is a little confusing, but if you don't like the guy then don't invite him. Simple as that.
Espo22
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now that is SCANDOLOUS!!!
i say do whatever you feel comfortable doing
Mizzdimple
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now that is SCANDOLOUS!!!
i say do whatever you feel comfortable doing
lol yea very..but the F'ed up part is my mother doesnt see anything wrong with both being there....strange!
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Posted by Espo22
now that is SCANDOLOUS!!!
i say do whatever you feel comfortable doing
lol yea very..but the F'ed up part is my mother doesnt see anything wrong with both being there....strange!
hahaaha thats funny that your mom thinks that, hey shes up with the times lol.
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Posted by Mizzdimple
Posted by Espo22
now that is SCANDOLOUS!!!
i say do whatever you feel comfortable doing
lol yea very..but the F'ed up part is my mother doesnt see anything wrong with both being there....strange!
hahaaha thats funny that your mom thinks that, hey shes up with the times lol.
omg....should i be worried
Kurtsk8
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oh MAN! that's crazy...and sleazy! I wouldn't invite any of em. You don't want that kind of drama unfolding at your wedding!!
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oh MAN! that's crazy...and sleazy! I wouldn't invite any of em. You don't want that kind of drama unfolding at your wedding!!
I KNOW! thats to consider
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Basically one of my mother's co-workers who is now her friend is dating my FMIL's friend's HUSBAND!!!!!!!!
How bad is that..what am I suppose to do..I have to invite her friend & Guest...
And FMIL wants to invite her friend and husband... Everyone thinks the wife knows about her husband cheating on her..and knows my moms friend...ugh ...torn
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FMIL's friends hubby is cheating with my mom's friend.....and I need to invite everyone.
Well...that's definetly a head-scratcher. What I don't understand is how your mom could think that that's okay.....unless everyone knows the situation and is also okay with it....maybe they have an open marriage I'm mean, probably not, but always a possibility??
........either way, it's kinda strange. I honestly don't know what I'd do....seems like one of those things where decisions should be made on a case by case basis depending on the state of all the individuals involved.....
Sorry you have to make this difficult decision.
But remember (and this is going to sound a little sefish....) if there is a chance for drama, I would consider not inviting them since you don't want their problems to overshadow your day.
angl2001
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do not invite the woman....you DO NOT need drama at your wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!
Espo22
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maybe its not that your mom thinks its ok but just that she thinks its not her business and she is not one to judge and what other people dois their own business...I don't know just guessing
Mizzdimple
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Ugh I know..i dont understand it either.. Maybe I dont know the whole story...
Im going to try to avoid the whole drama and speak to FMIL about it...it will be very strange..
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hopefully everyone will act like nothing if you have to end up inviting them all.
thats stuff thats going to happen at my wedding i bet..
i would say..THIS IS MY WEDDING..
were proclaiming to everyone that we are going to love and be with eachother forever..i dont need people at my wedding that dont believe in that vow themselves
its kind of hypocritical if you ask me
bonch20
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it is your day, so do what you want! at least there's a few months for things to change!
Munchkn16
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yikes. I don't have a soloution for you, so I'l just send a
SugaBeans
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i wouldnt invite them! its hard bc im sure you still want moms friend there. and you can just invite her. maybe you just shouldnt invite any of them. it might make it a little easier.
