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Moved in with FH???

Original post by baba022

Anyone already move in with FH after they got engaged?? And are you loving it???

I moved in with fh about three months ago. It took me a little time cause I was still living at home and couldnt break the 'cord'..LOL. I was at my moms the other day and wasn't feeing well and all I wanted to do was go home to my bed - NOT my bed/room that I had for years...but my and fh's bed!! LOL it was an epiphany!!! But now I am loving it!! I am still getting used to the cooking and cleaning and stuff...but its nice..:)
kbond06 Posted:

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We moved in after 7 months of being engaged. I always thought that I wouldn't be able to leave my parents (only child) haha..but I love it. Even when he's at work during this summer (I'm a teacher)...I don't go to my parents....ever. Luckily I'm only about 15 mins away from my family..but living with him in so comfortable! Luckily it was a VERY easy adjustment.

The cleaning is the only part I could absolutely do without..but oh well!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by kbond06

We moved in after 7 months of being engaged. I always thought that I wouldn't be able to leave my parents (only child) haha..but I love it. Even when he's at work during this summer (I'm a teacher)...I don't go to my parents....ever. Luckily I'm only about 15 mins away from my family..but living with him in so comfortable! Luckily it was a VERY easy adjustment.

The cleaning is the only part I could absolutely do without..but oh well!



what do you do while hes at work? i find myself completely bored b/c i am kinda far from my fam and in the same situation
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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I wasn't going to till we were married...to keep some kind of tradition...but let me tell you.. the thought is getting bigger and bigger everytime another wall goes up in the house lol

AllisonBrian Posted:

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I hear you on the boredom. I am a teacher too and after the crazy year is over you can't help but feel a little bored and I really miss my FH. I try to make as many plans with friends as possible and work on projects that I know I will never finish during the school year. Tutoring is great too and brings in some great wedding money!

missjones2007 Posted:

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Posted by Theresa2104

Yes we decided to buy a house instead of getting engaged (used money he saved for my ring for down payment)

So we have been living together about a year and half and it is soooo nice. I had some trouble leaving home (so sad) But now I love 'my home' I always thought of home where my mom is, but now all of a sudden I am calling home where my FH is [/QUO

smart move....no i dont live with FH yet
MEMEJOR Posted:

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we have been living together for a lil over 2 yrs... i cant imagine not waking up to him evey morning

Tori9299 Posted:

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We are at my parents together. We can't find an apartment
But we can't wait to move in together.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by Tori9299

We are at my parents together. We can't find an apartment
But we can't wait to move in together.



dont give up!!!! how many places have you looked at?
kbond06 Posted:

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Currently I'll do laundry, food shop, shop for myself, or go to the gym oh and go on LIW haha. Not exactly THRILLING, but I can't complain yet b/c I'm off from work for the summer. We also recently got a puppy, so he keeps me busy. Probably next summer, I will work to keep busy. I also want to do a lot of wedding planning this summer so that I'm not going completely crazy and stressed out during the school year.

ELluvsMB Posted:

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We moved in a year after we graduated from college together. We stayed home a year to save and now it's been 2 years since we've been living together. I love living with him and I'm so happy to not be home anymore but it would have been nice to have saved a litte more...NYC is expensive!!!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by kbond06

Currently I'll do laundry, food shop, shop for myself, or go to the gym oh and go on LIW haha. Not exactly THRILLING, but I can't complain yet b/c I'm off from work for the summer. We also recently got a puppy, so he keeps me busy. Probably next summer, I will work to keep busy. I also want to do a lot of wedding planning this summer so that I'm not going completely crazy and stressed out during the school year.



lol thats exactly what ive been doin... minus the gym lol just finished laundry actually... FH better not get used to this housewife treatment LOL
kbond06 Posted:

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haha, yep my laundry is almost done as well. Nah I don't think I could be a housewife....only if I were a millionaire, then it would be fine with me
baba022 Posted:

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Posted by AllisonBrian

I just moved in 3 weeks ago but have been staying here quite a bit over the last 3 years. I do miss living at home especialy when FH is doing dinner programs and I am eating all by myself (he's a sales rep so he is away a lot too). It is also hard since he's been living here a few years and is decorated 'his' way. I bought throw pillows for the couch and he was a bit fearful as to what I would do next haha. I am grateful to have the experience and grateful mom and dad are only 3 miles away :)



Me too!!! LOL I started changing things around....hehe...LOL My parents are only 5 blocks from us :)
FutureMrsG Posted:

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FH and I planned to move in together before we were engaged...he actually proposed while we were packing his apartment. After moving in together the first few weeks were really stressful but now I love it!

baba022 Posted:

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

I wasn't going to till we were married...to keep some kind of tradition...but let me tell you.. the thought is getting bigger and bigger everytime another wall goes up in the house lol



That was my plan at first, but I think it would be too much on me with all the adjustments....LOL so I moved in before hand....
Celeste617 Posted:

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We've been living in sin for a looooong time...nearly 8 years...but we only moved out and got our own place a few months ago. We got engaged about a month and a half later. So much better not having mom around
ckleinismine Posted:

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I have moved in with my FH before we got engaged. I love it. He asked me to move in with him after 2-3 months of dating

meli722 Posted:

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weve lived together for 3 years now, it has its ups and downs, in the winter i cant wait to go to work or for him to go to work and get away from him because were always in the house together driving each other crazy l
ttdiff11 Posted:

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i felt the same way! im very close to my mom and dad but so i couldnt 'cut the cord' either lol. but me and fh have been living together since december and when it finally felt like home, that was an epipjany for me as well!

ace730 Posted:

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I moved in 2 days after we got engaged and after a small period of adjustment, I am absolutely loving our lives together.

I still wish he would put his dishes in the darn dishwasher instead of throwing him in the sink, though, LOL!

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