why would you choose only single people? It's supposed to about who is most important to you...
The only advice I can give you is to be excited for your friend, enjoy her wedding, and be happy that you now have someone else in your life who can share the excitement of planning a wedding with you.
Kara and Todd
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Treat your friend how you would like to be treated during the wedding planning process. You want other people to be happy for you, so be happy for her, too!
I don't understand why you only wanted single people in the wedding. I chose those who were closest to me and wouldn't replace any one of them with someone else or have asked them to leave just because they were married / pg or whatever. (Had they opted out, that'd be one thing, but I wanted them because of who they were, not because of their marital status)
I would be happy for her and still have her as a part of your wedding.
KK Holiday
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My younger cousin got engaged before me and asked me to be bridesmaid. Then I got engaged....I had asked her if it was ok if I got married the same year/summer as her and she said OF COURSE WHY NOT!?
It felt great to know that she was just happy for me to be getting married and that she didnt mind if it the 2 weddings would be close. It strengthened our bond and now we get to plan our weddings together and its so fun! She went from being my maid of honor to matron of honor!
Just embrace the moment and get together with her and have fun planning!
CourtandJon
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Planning your wedding with a friend is soooo much fun!!! My friend just got married last month, so for months we had been planning together and it was a blast!!! Just sharing ideas and everything was a lot of fun- I think once you get used to the idea you may actually love it!
little34
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Ask her opinion...it may be easier and cheaper for her to not be in the wedding since she will be planning her own... tell her you wanted all single friends and is there a chance of her being pregnant...like i said she may be relieved because of money....