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Must type B4 FH gets home....(LONG)

prncssrachel Posted:

Must type B4 FH gets home....(LONG)

Ok, so let me just start by saying FH is the most immature being on earth when it comes to certain things. I moved, yes MOVED, to MA because he FINALLY decided to go back and finish college, so I said, Sure honey, how could I live without you, I'll go with you for a year and a half. So now he's all enrolled in his classes and we're up to our ears in the $20,000 a year he has to pay for tuition, and the little SH!T doesn't even f-ing go to his classes. I'm aquiring debt for my future with this man, and he does no work for school, and hardly ever goes. He whines to me and says that all the kids are too young there, and he's done all this stuff when he first started college(he goes to art school where they have no grades or attendance policy). So he calls me today to B!TCH that one of his professors was yelling at him because he hasn't worked on his project yet this semester, and he wanted me to be like, oh how could she yell at you? This is the man I am marrying? WHAT A BABY! I drag my a$$ out of bed at 6am everyday to go to a job that I hate to make money to pay the rent, the bills, etc...and he is whining because someone finally called him on his laziness. I mean, he works full-time on top of it, but full-time at his job is 28 hours a week because they're not open enough hours to be a 40 hr a week job. But really, he doesn't go in till 11am, get real! I am so aggravated. GRRRRRRRR!



Ok, I made him sound really bad, I just think that he probably is not as interested in art school as he once was, and just doesn't know what else to go to school for, but still....grow up!
yabbobay Posted:

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sorry rachel....sometimes the men need a kick in the a$$...so hopefully the comment from the professor will change his attitude

HeatherandNick Posted:

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Men
Who needs them anyway???
In reality, we do
Think back to all the good, fun, romantic things he's done for you??? Hopefully that will make you again
CatchI22 Posted:

Re: Must type B4 FH gets home....(LONG)

Rachel
My DH goes to school too... and he did the same SHIT last semester. I have to give him some credit, though, b/c he works full-time and goes to school full time at night but i told him ITS NOT MY FAULT YOU DIDN'T FINISH COLLEGE the first time around. I had to hear him ***** about the stupid young kids too, and not wanting to go to class.... Last semester he didn't do so hot and I flipped out... told him what a waste of money it was, etc. and since then he is back on the ball. But thank god mine is going to a State school, i can't imagine paying 20K!
Sunny Posted:

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I know the feeling- we have the same fight about him going to work!!

prncssrachel Posted:

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Thank goodness I am not alone, because I just kept thinking that I must have the laziest man alive! But I am just angry right now. He did awesome last semester, but I guess it's hard to do something you're not interested in. He would be going to a cheaper school for something different, but because they get no grades, just credits, he can't transfer, so after next semester, he can take his diploma, yes not a degree, and he can finish his degree in NY. It's stupid splitting of hairs, but I guess I can see where he'd be unmotivated.

jennbaby Posted:

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Have a talk with him and give him a kick!

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