My 1st No RSVP

Augustbride08 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:33 PM

My 1st No RSVP

I just opened my mail and someone I was sure was going to come RSVPed no. So far I've gotten 17 yeses but this is so sad for me. They have been friends of the family for years and we've gone to all of their family events- bar/bat mitz?, graduations etc. and they are not coming to my wedding. They've known about it for over a year.

RadiantBride Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:35 PM

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Try giving them a call just to make sure everything is ok. I can safely assume that it must be a situation out of thier control as to why they can not attend your wedding.

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:36 PM

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Oh I am sorry! They didn't write on the card why they can't come? Or tell your parents, etc?

SoonToBeMrsScott Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:38 PM

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I am sorry alot of people you expect will come will disappoint you and not attend it will be ok you will have so many people that love you that will be there to support you

csaburro Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:39 PM

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I had a few of those myself and was disappointed too. Mostly family believe it or not. I know how you feel.

Augustbride08 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 04:55 PM

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I'm going to have my mom call when she gets home tonight to find out what's going on. I'm just so disappointed.

kimandvin Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:02 PM

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Awww , IM on the other end.. I need more No's I only have 8 and 106 yes...

MJDoc12 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:05 PM

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boy have i been there! try not to feel so sad.....but i know it hurts when you think some people who you figured wouldn't miss it for the world...are the ones to first say 'no'

your wedding will be great anyway and you'll have fun with the ones that do show up!

Princess Cut Bride Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:18 PM

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Aww...I'm sorry! Maybe they have a really good reason! Did they write anything on the response card?

bluegreen08 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:54 PM

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i'm sorry, especially since it's someone you thought would be coming. it's probably a good idea to find out why, that way you have some closure.

we had a few disappointing NO rsvps so far, but from OOTers who i was hoping would make the trip (but i can understand why they arent able to).

i hope the rest of the people you really want to be there can attend

jeanyus27 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:56 PM

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that happened to me too with one of my friends and one of my uncles. I thought for sure they would be there but they both responded no. One couldn't make the long drive from Virginia and my uncle was going to Florida. It upset me cause they both new about it for a while.

Augustbride08 Posted: Jun 05, 2008 05:59 PM

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Thank you. No there was nothing on the card but a check next to unable to attend. They live 10 minutes from the church and 15 from the RH. Oh well. My mom is going to call and find out.