My analysis poralysis is kicking in..hair flower question

I am not doing a tiara. I have long (fake) diamond earrings for my first dress and a pearl choker for second (minus the earrings- I'll wear pearl studs). I have embellishments on my veil. Nothing over the top.

I would love to compliment everything with an ivory flower in my hair. It will go with diamonds or pearls and less to change when I get into second dress. HOWEVER my second dress has a flower all the way on bottom. Will that be overkill?

ps: not wearing choker in pic...I decided to go with smaller necklace with just pearls...