Wow I would be really pissed. If someone did that to me I'd probably say they couldn't be in my wedding. The only thing that could be done is have her wear a different dress if you really still want her in it??? IDK - that is just terrible she should have listen to you...
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I had a similar problem with my sister in law. We talked and she REALLY wanted to get the 8, and I told her to get the 10.
She finally relinquished and got the 10.
Honestly? If she does not fit, and doe not get it fixed, she does not walk down the aisle. Be prepared to loose a friend. If she is already giving YOU sh it about HER mistake I dont see any way this is going to end well.
well I'm a raging mega ***** so dont' take my advice but I would kick her 'SIZE ZERO' *** right out of my wedding.
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That was stupid!!! WOW!!
People don't realize how these dresses run!! Some of my BM's tried to pull that crap with me. But I wasn't having any of it. I pulled out my own tape measure and measured them and ordered what the chart said they were and not what they said they were. They don't realize how these dresses run!!! Personally I would have ordered her a size 4 and let her think I did a 2. If in the end I was wrong... then I would suck it up.. but I'd rather be safe than sorry.
WOW so now with this issue... all you can do it wait it out and see what they can do about it. Either let out material or order a new dress would be your options I'm assuming. I'm sorry you are going through this!!! How stressful!!!
Kerri, TRUE! Jen, so so sorry that you're dealing with this. I personally got all my girls to give me their measurements (or with SIL she actually tried one on in the salon and broke it, and then wanted me to order 'the one she tried on' yeah right ) and then I too ordered based on the chart. I freaking SCRUTINIZED that chart! I had one girl who MADE me order a 4 no matter what, and it was SO tight on her, her boobs were popping out all night. She actually RIPPED the big bow off the back of their dresses off by the end of the night as well, but that's another story Hopefully the dress will be able to be let out somehow, or maybe some kind of rush order or fix order placed? It may cost money, but what are you gonna do? It will make you feel so much better just to fix the problem, trust me. FM me if you want to talk Jen
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Sorry you are going through this but it is her fault she should have gotten measured. Doesn't she know that BM dresses run differently and are not the same as sizes in a department store. Not to be mean, I would let her deal with it!! You ordered the size she asked for. Let her have a tailor let out some material.
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OMG i would have to fly down to FLA. to kill her
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Posted by KerriJohnS
That was stupid!!! WOW!!
People don't realize how these dresses run!! Some of my BM's tried to pull that crap with me. But I wasn't having any of it. I pulled out my own tape measure and measured them and ordered what the chart said they were and not what they said they were. They don't realize how these dresses run!!! Personally I would have ordered her a size 4 and let her think I did a 2. If in the end I was wrong... then I would suck it up.. but I'd rather be safe than sorry.
WOW so now with this issue... all you can do it wait it out and see what they can do about it. Either let out material or order a new dress would be your options I'm assuming. I'm sorry you are going through this!!! How stressful!!!
Kerri, TRUE! Jen, so so sorry that you're dealing with this. I personally got all my girls to give me their measurements (or with SIL she actually tried one on in the salon and broke it, and then wanted me to order 'the one she tried on' yeah right ) and then I too ordered based on the chart. I freaking SCRUTINIZED that chart! I had one girl who MADE me order a 4 no matter what, and it was SO tight on her, her boobs were popping out all night. She actually RIPPED the big bow off the back of their dresses off by the end of the night as well, but that's another story Hopefully the dress will be able to be let out somehow, or maybe some kind of rush order or fix order placed? It may cost money, but what are you gonna do? It will make you feel so much better just to fix the problem, trust me. FM me if you want to talk Jen
She broke the dress in the store and then wanted to buy that dres???? Where are people's brains??? It's not about the number it's about what looks best on! When will people learn that squeezing into a smaller size makes you look worse then just wearing the next size up?!?! My old coworker used to do that and she walked around like a over stuffed sausage all the time!! Legs - Haha yeah her boobs were popping out! I think it might have been painful at some points!! haha!! Sad part is...she doesn't even have big boobs!! The dress was just too small. People don't think about pictures or videos I suppose! Remember that other girl we saw recently Legs? With the red marks on her boobs from attire that was wayyyyyyyy too tight??? I scrutinized the chart and I measured the girls!! Then I picked the sizes. Haha.. and they are all probably going to be too big.