my daddy

my daddy

as some of you know my dad has been fighting cancer, i've posted a few things about it in the past well my mom called last night and told me my daddy isnt doing well, i cried all night. she want me to go there today and see them after his appt w/ the dr. but she tells me not to cry when i see him, how am i suspose to not cry i'm so a daddys girl and i'm not taking this well at all. i'll be driving and think about him and cry i'm crying now . i am having such a hard time with this. i just needed to vent thanks for listening(reading)

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my prayers are with you & your family

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I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

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Hang in there sweetie. I will be praying for your dad and your family

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im so sorry to hear this my thoughts are with you and your family.. whenever you need to vent/talk/cry we are all here for you.

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my prayers are with you

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I am at a loss of words but what I can say is just stay strong for him because I am sure he needs the people he loves now more than ever....

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awww i am so sorry you have to deal with this right now especially because it's supposed to be a happy time for you. Im sure your mom just wants you to be strong for your dad. i dont know how you're supposed to do that but when it comes down to it, i feel that you should be able to show how you are feeling also.

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wow that's tough. I am sorry to hear about him.

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i don't know what to say other than that i am so sorry. you're in my thoughts and prayers.

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I went through a similar situation, it was my mom, its hard to stay strong but I think if you think of the happy times and just spending time with him your be ok. If your dad is well, maybe you could speak to him, watch a movie/tv, a board game so it will take your mind and his mind off his illness. My mom and I would talk for hours and take naps together in the hospital/hospice. There are also social workers who you could speak to before you go see your dad, if you think that might help.

I hope this helps. your family will be in my prayers.

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i am so sorry that you are going through this...i will keep you in my thoughts.. if you ever need to talk.

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i know it sounds impossible to do.....but i do see where your mom is coming from. She is trying to protect your father from feeling guilty or upset. However, this is what is happening and I think it would be good for you and your dad to talk about it. Maybe it will make him and you feel better. IDK how long this has been going on, so I don't know your where your dad is at in terms of preparing for this. Don't force yourself to be a certain way when you see him...it will just be ackward and he'll know it. Go there, and be yourself. Be his daughter. If it is too much to handle....go to the bathroom and cry a little, freshen up, and start over. I really hope this helps. You and your family are in my prayers.

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I'm so sorry about your dad My prayers and thoughts are with you, your dad, and your whole family

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i am so sorry you are going through this.. but we are here for you to vent!!!! stay positive and we will be praying for him!

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Oh I am so sorry for your pain. I will keep you and your family close in prayer

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i have dealt with cancer in my family as well. It's very hard, and even harder when they tell you not to cry when you see your parents ill.
If you need to talk or anything, FM me.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

I will keep your father in my thoughts