My Ex Job....(FRIDAY'S UPDATE!)

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:24 PM

My Ex Job....(FRIDAY'S UPDATE!)

So tell me why SHE keeps on being so nice and sweet to me? I am here in the Real Estate office by myself this afternoon for a bit...she called to check on me to make sure I was ok )...Are you for real I told her!!! I told her it's not necessary to call me...I am not her responsibility...you know what she says to me....' Regardless of everything that happened I still care about you Jenn'..

She can't make nice nice now...I am still hurt!!

Her calling me was the start to ruin my day...She can't treat it like it is old times cause it's not..things have changed..forever!!

autumnbride10 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:28 PM

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Is this the one you sent the e-mail to?

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:33 PM

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Yep!!! Jen, she had the nerve to call me sweetie on Monday!!! And when they were doing the fire alarm so concerned for me!!! WHY??? I am so so mad she did this to me..I want to strangle her!!!!!!!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:37 PM

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Just let it go... don't let it get you so worked up...

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:41 PM

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I'm trying to but it's hard...It came out of nowhere and I was shocked..her and I had an awesome friendship..we were on a personal level..she got teary when I invited her to the wedding and when she told me she appreicated everything I did..

Someone brought it up that she fired me and demoted my friend out of anger...and should of thought about it before taking action

Whatever...I am trying to let it go but it's hard when the office is literally next door and I still have to see her...I am trying my best to move on!!

Maria31 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:41 PM

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What did she do to you? Sorry, there must have been other threads on this issue, but can I get a brief recap? LOL

Maria31 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:43 PM

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Posted by Maria31

What did she do to you? Sorry, there must have been other threads on this issue, but can I get a brief recap? LOL

ETS: Forget it! Just saw the above post.

Don't let it upset you.. .just brush her off. She probably regrets what she did and feels bad. At least she's trying to make an effort.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 01:53 PM

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It's hard...but I am trying!!! I will FM you the whole post of how it happened!!

PS- I still do care about her...but I can't have her at my wedding..Yeah I uninvited her to the wedding!!!

kslmbuggie Posted: Aug 20, 2008 02:12 PM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

Just let it go... don't let it get you so worked up...

i agree. you should try to keep it as professional as possible.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 02:23 PM

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Oh it's very professional...I'm calling her by her last name! I told her we are on a last name basis..she looks at me and goes 'Jenn..' Last name basis only i repeated to her!!!!

KKPK1004 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 02:39 PM

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Posted by sweetdoublenn

Yep!!! Jen, she had the nerve to call me sweetie on Monday!!! And when they were doing the fire alarm so concerned for me!!! WHY??? I am so so mad she did this to me..I want to strangle her!!!!!!!

my friend went through this. She was pushed out of a position due to ridiculous colleagues. Her boss was too much of a push over to keep her right hand and nip bickering co workers in the tush.

At least she feels bad.

Maybe you should tell her her calls make it worse and nothing she can say will change how you feel.

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted: Aug 20, 2008 03:03 PM

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It sounds like she feels bad about what happened. Be the bigger person. Don't be rude or make snarky comments. Just calmly tell her that you are fine and that she doesn't need to call anymore. If she calls multiple times just repeat the same thing -- I'm fine and you don't need to call anymore. She will get the message.

If you get all upset and start snapping at her she'll feel the need to keep calling back. If she still thinks you're hurt then she'll keep trying to make things better. Just let it go -- and she will too.

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Aug 20, 2008 03:05 PM

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When is your last day there? Did they give you 2 wks notice or something?

And what did she say when she got the email about you uninviting her to the wedding?

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 20, 2008 08:36 PM

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I was pulled in last Thursday and was told Friday was my last day..I was so mad...and hurt cause I thought we were friends..I did write her an e-mail about my wedding...I never did get a response back from her and she never did say anything..I know they are going to start talking about it over there since everyone needs an outfit..22 days and counting!!!!

I am gonna let it go! Her office is in clear view of my car so she can watch me come and go..From what I heard she is has regretted it..I don't think so!!! But I am letting it go and moving on from it! It was a learning experiance and I will never open up to someone that I only have known for 6 months....

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 22, 2008 04:39 PM

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So out of the goodness of my heart I went next door to help my friend with labels..'She' didn't even look at me!!! Maybe she is getting the message..but earlier she says ' Tell Jenn I said hi!'..is she for real?

But I am not as eager to strangle her as I was..It is passing and I'm not even that mad anymore..