my f-ing family
This post is all about drama so if your not up for that... I suggest not reading any further... But, if you are interested, while its long, I will promise you that it will be a shocking read....
But anyway, I had hip surgery two and a half weeks ago and am still on crutches which pretty much makes it impossible for me to do anything on my own. I spent the first week with Fh who flew home from Texas to take care of me (he is there for work), the second week with my FMIL and FFIL, and the third week was supposed to be with my parents and sisters.
Well, FMIL dropped me off at my parents house, went to get her hair done, and then was going to bring me back to my apt to get my things for the week at my parents. In the short period I was home, my middle sister (3 of them) refused to get out of bed (at 2 in the afternoon) to come upstairs and help me get dressed after the shower. Then FMIL came back but I couldn't leave bc my computer was locked in my mothers room and she was showering. She had to wait and none of my sisters (or middle sister bf) came out to say hello to her. Then middle sister dropped ice cream on the floor in front of where I needed to walk through (um I can slip?) and refused to pick it up even though I nicely asked her 3x. She even tried rubbing into the wood floor with her shoe. Then 56 year old FMIL carries ALL of my things to the car and my older sister only helps when I ask her to. She only said bye to me and not FMIL. After that, I thought I left my cell phone in the house. I called from the car and youngest sister answers the phone. I asked her if she could check around to see if my cell phone was there and her response was, 'Here, the call is for you' and hands it to my oldest sister instead of helping me. I explain the whole thing again to the oldest sister who says, 'No. I don't want to look for it. I hate looking for things.' At this point, I'm about to go inside and look for it myself but FMIL doesn't want me to go up the stairs again on crutches. She goes inside and looks for it and my mom tells my sisters to help and they refuse and my older sister actually says, 'I was going to but she was rude to me (all I said to her was thanks a lot kristen in a snotty voice which I think was warranted).
The worst part is later that night I got an e-mail from my mom saying we all (including me who did nothing) need to work on how we treat one another and we have to look at what part we have in things. I e-mailed my mom back the entire story giving her the benefit of the doubt about not understanding what happened and she writes back the same message as the first time and basically tells me to stop acting like a victim (she used that word).
They make me sick and piss me off. Oh and my 3 sisters made a huge scene when my BM were trying to plan my bachelorette party. They flipped out about the cost (which might be like 150-200 a girl) when meanwhile they are not paying for dress, hair, make up, wedding gift, anything. The comprimise they made with me was they will spend that on my bachelorette but that is all they will spend on my wedding. They can't afford to give me a gift for wedding or shower thats all they will spend. For two of them I can see this and I understand it, but I just found out the youngest has 5,000 in the bank that she is saving for college and that she just spend 85 dollars going to a hypnotist to see if they could keep her from being shy (which she isn't). BRATS.
But anyway, I had hip surgery two and a half weeks ago and am still on crutches which pretty much makes it impossible for me to do anything on my own. I spent the first week with Fh who flew home from Texas to take care of me (he is there for work), the second week with my FMIL and FFIL, and the third week was supposed to be with my parents and sisters.
Well, FMIL dropped me off at my parents house, went to get her hair done, and then was going to bring me back to my apt to get my things for the week at my parents. In the short period I was home, my middle sister (3 of them) refused to get out of bed (at 2 in the afternoon) to come upstairs and help me get dressed after the shower. Then FMIL came back but I couldn't leave bc my computer was locked in my mothers room and she was showering. She had to wait and none of my sisters (or middle sister bf) came out to say hello to her. Then middle sister dropped ice cream on the floor in front of where I needed to walk through (um I can slip?) and refused to pick it up even though I nicely asked her 3x. She even tried rubbing into the wood floor with her shoe. Then 56 year old FMIL carries ALL of my things to the car and my older sister only helps when I ask her to. She only said bye to me and not FMIL. After that, I thought I left my cell phone in the house. I called from the car and youngest sister answers the phone. I asked her if she could check around to see if my cell phone was there and her response was, 'Here, the call is for you' and hands it to my oldest sister instead of helping me. I explain the whole thing again to the oldest sister who says, 'No. I don't want to look for it. I hate looking for things.' At this point, I'm about to go inside and look for it myself but FMIL doesn't want me to go up the stairs again on crutches. She goes inside and looks for it and my mom tells my sisters to help and they refuse and my older sister actually says, 'I was going to but she was rude to me (all I said to her was thanks a lot kristen in a snotty voice which I think was warranted).
The worst part is later that night I got an e-mail from my mom saying we all (including me who did nothing) need to work on how we treat one another and we have to look at what part we have in things. I e-mailed my mom back the entire story giving her the benefit of the doubt about not understanding what happened and she writes back the same message as the first time and basically tells me to stop acting like a victim (she used that word).
They make me sick and piss me off. Oh and my 3 sisters made a huge scene when my BM were trying to plan my bachelorette party. They flipped out about the cost (which might be like 150-200 a girl) when meanwhile they are not paying for dress, hair, make up, wedding gift, anything. The comprimise they made with me was they will spend that on my bachelorette but that is all they will spend on my wedding. They can't afford to give me a gift for wedding or shower thats all they will spend. For two of them I can see this and I understand it, but I just found out the youngest has 5,000 in the bank that she is saving for college and that she just spend 85 dollars going to a hypnotist to see if they could keep her from being shy (which she isn't). BRATS.
