My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

pa56 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:28 AM

My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

Among the changes:
- Wants to do mother/son dance (but has yet to suggest a song)
- wants a garter and bouquet toss (again, no song suggestions)
- wants to change one of the appetizers at the cocktail hour
- wants to wear a bow tie now instead of a tuxedo tie

He's had 10 months to think about these things and NOW 3 weeks before the wedding he's actually starting to think. It's VERY frustrating because I HATE rushed things but that's how he thinks and I can't change it.

yelley77 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:29 AM

Re: My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

hahahahah!!! I think that is happening to all of our FH's

pa56 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:30 AM

Re: My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

Posted by yelley77

hahahahah!!! I think that is happening to all of our FH's

I guess it's just girls vs boys. Girls plan months and months (even years) in advance, and guys think about one hour in advance.

Kerin2804 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:37 AM

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I would tell him to contact the tux shop, the RH and the band or DJ.

ttw910 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:39 AM

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Ughh mine is the same way. All along he's shown no interest, then when he finds out about how something is being done, he suddenly has a problem with it. Too late buddy!

pa56 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:42 AM

Re: My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

Posted by Kerin2804

I would tell him to contact the tux shop, the RH and the band or DJ.

Honestly, I don't want to do that because last minute changes are costly and it's my money too! If you rush order a tuxedo, you pay more! That means, I pay more!

RockysGirl Posted: Sep 12, 2008 09:53 AM

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oh yeah, i get stressed with last minute changes as well. i've been annoyingly up his butt about things and we've finally come to decisions, so this better not happen to me..... probably will

JTsGal829 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 10:40 AM

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i'm sure he'll change his mind about all these changes if you tell him he's gonna have to be the one to make all the phone calls and take care of it..lol.
I know that would make my FH stop making changes!!!
mine is the same way though.. he wants no part until i make a choice.. and then he's like uhhh.. can we do this?? Very annoying!!!!!!

pa56 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 10:43 AM

Re: My FH is FINALLY starting to give his input.... 3 weeks before the wedding!

Posted by JTsGal829

i'm sure he'll change his mind about all these changes if you tell him he's gonna have to be the one to make all the phone calls and take care of it..lol.
I know that would make my FH stop making changes!!!
mine is the same way though.. he wants no part until i make a choice.. and then he's like uhhh.. can we do this?? Very annoying!!!!!!

I think I am going to have to tell him something like 'they charge $xyz extra if you make changes within 7 days of the wedding'