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My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers- WITH UPDATE

Tracy&Brian Posted:

My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers- WITH UPDATE

Ok so my invites showed up yesterday. I ordered them online and I have been raving about this company all over LIW. The invite wording was printed incorrectly (even though i paid extra for them to send me an email line-by-line proof) and the band on this invite does not look at all like the picture. I asked the invite company to send me a sample of the band 2 times and they kept telling me they were out of stock. Now it shows up and its a completely different material than the invite. Plus its cut so poorly that on every single one is frayed with disgusting edges. Even FH thinks it looks terrible and cheesy. I am EMBARRASED to send these out in their current condition.

So I went to AC Moore and Michael's last night trying to find nice ribbon to tie around the invite as a substitute. But, I realized this morning how ticked off I am at the whole situation. Now I am gonna have to spend like another $60 for ribbon and basically my invites are now DIY because it is going to take a lot of time and energy for me to assemble the ribbon! I called the invitation company this morning to complain, but they have to call me back because they are 'investigating' what happend. I broke down crying at my desk this morning and now all my co-workers are trying to make me feel better. I am so frustrated with every detail of this wedding starting to fall apart! I can't handle it anymore!



UPDATE:
First of all, thank you for all your support! I love how you all can make me feel so much better in panic situations.

So here is what the resoloution is. The company is willing to reprint the invitations- they are admitting it is completely their error for the wording being misaligned. They are also crediting me for the $10 that I paid to see my proof since they did not print it as they confirmed. They also admit that there has been a problem with the band and that other people have called up to complain. They tried many solutions, but the best one we could agree on is that they are giving me a $25 credit back so that I can put it towards purchasing ribbon for my invitations. Which means I am gonna have to DIY....but I would rather this $25 credit than new bands, which they cannot print on any other type of paper. I am not 100% satisfied. I spent the whole morning fighting with this company and even though they admitted to being 100% at fault, they were only willing at the most to give me a credit for the invites ONLY, no credit for additional pieces and printing fees. I wonder how these are gonna turn out with the ribbon. I will keep you guys updated and show you the finished product. Thanks again for all your support!!! I love you all!

BTW- Does anyone know where I can get INEXPENSIVE but really nice satin ribbon?
October Bliss Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

Aww, sweetie, don't fret too much. The invite company will call you back and it will all work out. Just try and stay strong. You'll get through this!
seta Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

how did u pay?? if it is credit card, can u ask your company to stop payment?
I would demand to speak to the manager...stick to your guns..if they are not presentable, they are not acceptable!!!
Tracy&Brian Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers


Posted by seta

how did u pay?? if it is credit card, can u ask your company to stop payment?
I would demand to speak to the manager...stick to your guns..if they are not presentable, they are not acceptable!!!



do you think i can really stop payment if they give me a problem? I did pay by credit card.
MrsFelix Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

I would definitely demand that they correct the ones you have and/or a full refund. It's not your fault. You ordered them correctly and THEY scr*wed it up. Do not spend any more money (on ribbon) until you hear from them.

So sorry this happened!!!!
CIV578 Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

awww... Tracy it will be OK
Just wait until they give you a response before you spend the additional money for the ribbons... Maybe the will refund the additional expense.
BellaEyes Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers


Posted by seta

how did u pay?? if it is credit card, can u ask your company to stop payment?
I would demand to speak to the manager...stick to your guns..if they are not presentable, they are not acceptable!!!



I agree with this post!
GeorgeGiuliana Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

First - you still have time to figure the invites so don't run and spend anymore money yet!
Second - don't let a vendor do this to you!!! You are paying them money make them make you happy not mad!
Thrid - call your credit card company right now and find out if you can stop any of the paymen!!!!! They might do it there is a tiem line I believe
Fourth - there will be way to many other things that really need to be stressed over don't let this be one! you have us at LIW to make you happier and listen to you vent so come here every time you're upset and vent! Then call the vendor and tell them off!!!!!! Come here and get your hugs you'll feel a little beter and then call the vendor again and make them do even more for you! lol Make them pay for their error till nothing stresses you out! lol

IT WILL WORK OUT IT ALWAYS DOES!!!!!!!
Tracy&Brian Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

ugh i am getting impatient! I just called them back and waited on hold for 5 mins, then when i got someone on the phone they transferred me to voicemail. i hung up, called back and am on hold again....I am afraid i am gonna scream too much and scare them when they finally pick up!

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

Awww You have a lot of time still. You can return this order and get a refund, and then deal with a better company for your invites. It's a hassle, but it will be worth it so that you don't have to worry.
Tracy&Brian Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

I am still on F***ing hold! I am gonna kill someone today.

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers


Posted by Tracy&Brian

I am still on F***ing hold! I am gonna kill someone today.



Well, at least you have us while you wait for them.
CLMon7906 Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers


Posted by Tracy&Brian


Posted by seta

how did u pay?? if it is credit card, can u ask your company to stop payment?
I would demand to speak to the manager...stick to your guns..if they are not presentable, they are not acceptable!!!



do you think i can really stop payment if they give me a problem? I did pay by credit card.



yes, recently a girl got out of a deposit on a dress she no longer wanted (the store had been haggling her and not working out anyway and she found a dress she LOVED more)
MrsR72806 Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

I would give them H***! Don't let them step over you!

sr081906 Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers

When was it posted on your credit card? Sometimes you have 30 to 60 days to make a claim with them that you are refusing a payment. It depends also on your credit card company.

Usually credit cards will want you have to show that you have made 'every' attempts to resolve the issue first.

I would give the invite company a 'chance' to fix it. Find out what they say! Then, if you are not satisfied, cancel the payment with the credit card.

Good luck!!!
Tracy&Brian Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers- WITH UPDATE

I just updated with my resoloution.

BellaEyes Posted:

Re: My first official 'meltdown'- And I need to vent to my '06ers- WITH UPDATE

Try Micheals maybe?

Also don't forget to report these people to the BBB.

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