My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

and next year on the same day they are having a huge wedding. They are getting married now because she is pregnant. We are invited to a small BBQ after the jutice of the peace. Do we give them a gift now or next year? TIA

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

You should probably bring a small gift now and give a bigger one next year.

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

i would give them a token gift now and hold off for the big wedding to give the bigger goft

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

I woud give them a small gift (engagement party kind of gift)

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

Any ideas for a small gift? TIA

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

Are they registered? If not maybe something simple like a vase? Don't forget - you'll be buying a babyh gift too soon

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

I would bring a small gift now and a bigger one later. Maybe bring a vase, candle holders, picture frame or even a nice throw personalized for them.

Re: My FI's cousin is getting married Friday by a justice of the peace...

A picture frame or maybe a serving platter?