My friend and his girlfriend

nrvbrd Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:44 AM

My friend and his girlfriend

Hi.

One of my closest friends in the world- is going through something with his girlfriend. I may have posted about this in the past. They argue 24/7.

She recently sent him an email telling him that she is not sure if she is in love with him and really does not want to think about a future together. They have been together 3 years and she is almost 30 and he is 31. I have always thought their relationship was one sided, with him being the more caring. I would always bite my tongue as not to be judgmental, because there were times when my own relationship was less than ideal.

Well they are scheduled to go to Jamaica together next month with his family. It has been paid for already. He does not want to go with her now, but it has been paid for.

What would you guys suggest?

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:46 AM

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get the travel stuff switched over and him take a friend with him..

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:46 AM

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Honestly, I suggest you have them solve their own problems...forget about it,, soo not worth it..

Sage10.03 Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:48 AM

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With airlines the way they are now, he's not going to be able to get his $$ back unfortunately....
I would tell your friend, who is obviously a good guy, to cut his losses and start over.

He needs to find someone who will care for and love him as much as he does them.....

Good Luck to him

Alvatorre74 Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:49 AM

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I would just see it as a loss...and not bring her...But i agree with Marcellabella..he should handle his own situation

nrvbrd Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:51 AM

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I am letting him handle this. As I said I have become the best listener, because I really do not like to get involved in such things.

That is why I am venting to you guys, because it is pis*sing me off.

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:59 AM

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I've learned from my past experience, that although you feel you are helping, which to youand I you are, it always comes back to slap you in the face.. you'll spet in and then he'llprobably reconsider and go with her and you'lllook like an as..

not worth it,

Sunny Posted: Jul 11, 2003 12:00 PM

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I agree that he should leave her home and take the loss.

nrvbrd Posted: Jul 11, 2003 12:05 PM

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I know what you mean Marcella, this has happened to me with THEM. I had said my piece once when I though it was over , and low and behold they got back together. Now I just listen.