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My 'friend' just called......
blueyes678 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 03:49 PM+
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My 'friend' just called......

She left a message on my cell phone and she said she's not coming to the wedding - which is 10 days away!! Not only did we already pay for her and her boyfriend... BUT she said she '...can't get off work...' However, she told me WEEKS ago she had gotten off work for the day already. So now I don't know what to say. I'm a little disappointed.
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Jweb17 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:08 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

I'm sorry you have to deal with this stress 10 days before your wedding! People can be so inconsiderate sometimes! No matter what, you'll have a wonderful day - with or without her!
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Suzannebride Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:10 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......


Posted by Jweb17

I'm sorry you have to deal with this stress 10 days before your wedding! People can be so inconsiderate sometimes! No matter what, you'll have a wonderful day - with or without her!
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I agree. Think of all the people that are making an effort to be there for your big day. It will be great!
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MrsC2b Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:13 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

im sorry she is doing this too you ... maybe you should try talking to her a little later when your emotions are more in order and talk to her and just mention to her..'well i thought you told me that you had been able to take the day off'.. and see how it goes from there.
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ewickens Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:16 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

Her loss!!!
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angnick Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:18 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......


Posted by ewickens

Her loss!!!



my sentiments exactly.. her loss!
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CLMon7906 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:23 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

meanie head.

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Kerrycec Posted: Jun 14, 2006 04:42 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

its disappointing, but it happened to all of us.

hugs & kisses!!!
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FrogGirl0917 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 05:12 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

arrg, I hate when they do that.....

and BTW I thought you meant your other friend....cause that would have stunk too!
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patticakes Posted: Jun 14, 2006 05:37 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

People just don't do the right thing sometimes, I'm sorry you have to pick up the pieces. Just think about how great your day is going to be!!!
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cjb88 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 05:38 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

that *****! at least she called you... i had a 'friend' & a guest not show up at all... no phone call or anything!
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july06bride Posted: Jun 14, 2006 05:54 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......

that stinks that she did that to you-having to pay for people who dont show up is so annoying- but also, I bet you really just wanted her to be there You should tell her that you are upset and talk to her about it
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KellyBride Posted: Jun 14, 2006 08:02 PM+
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superkat Posted: Jun 14, 2006 08:23 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......


Posted by blueyes678

She left a message on my cell phone and she said she's not coming to the wedding - which is 10 days away!! Not only did we already pay for her and her boyfriend... BUT she said she '...can't get off work...' However, she told me WEEKS ago she had gotten off work for the day already. So now I don't know what to say. I'm a little disappointed.



I'm sorry. My cousin sent me an email today saying she can't make it because she can't get time off work (my wedding is in 3 days!!). Also, my FG cancelled 1 month before the wedding! I think the only person you can count on when it comes to wedding is your FH. Everything else is subjective.
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SwissMiss06 Posted: Jun 14, 2006 09:08 PM+
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Re: My 'friend' just called......


Posted by CLMon7906

meanie head.




yeah, what she said.
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